prostate

[dave77]

anyone know any vibrating anal toys that will make me cum without using my hands, preferably not too expensive.

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[janmb]

The aneros range of products is by far the best in this field

Most seem to prefer the non-vibrating versions though, the idea being that voluntary + involuntary ass contractions keep the toy moving, stimulating your prostate in the process. I have tried both regular and vibrating versions myself and must say I prefer the regular ones, but preferably the bulkier models.

Getting off purely from anal will most likely require some practice and patience though, regardless what toy you end up using. I spent a few months working on it myself before getting there - but when you do it's fantastic

[dave77]

thanks for that janmb any tips ?

[janmb]

thanks for that janmb any tips ?

In regards to technique you mean?

I started off watching instructional videos/reading up on the subject on the aneros forums, then experimented with it myself... There are also a few very nice hypno sessions to use for this purpose for those who are into that.

For me, relaxation, time and patience is what does it. Clear a roomy piece of your time table, start off with an enema to be completely clean and empty, use plenty of lube... Insert the device, lie back and relax. DONT try to start stimulation right away. While it might be tempting, and while the device may stimulate your prostate somewhat just by being there at all, try to relax at first. Get into the mood, visualize your prostate as a glowing ball inside your body, being nudged and nurtured by the inserted toy.

After having relaxed for a few minutes, your ass muscles should no longer be all tensed up and excited as the typically are just after insertion... Start stimulation by doing a very careful, fairly light contraction with your ass (as if wanting to stop poop or peeing.. same muscle). Squeeze lightly and try to hold it at that light level for a few seconds more than you feel like. Aim for 20 seconds at least. If untrained, this can be difficult, but like any other muscle, this can easily be trained as well. After holding, relax again.

Some feel a LOT from the very first time they make the aneros move, others don't. It seems to vary. For me, it feels great, but far from anything I would ever imagine giving me an orgasm. Patience padwan - it will

After resting a few seconds, contract and hold again, a little bit harder this time. Still far from as hard as you can, maybe a 3 or 4 on a scale from 1 to 10. Hold, and sample the sensations from your prostate. Feels great, now doesn't it? It is also perfectly normal for this to produce a lot of precum, so if you start leaking like crazy from this, that's perfectly normal. After holding, relax, but not fully. Just drop down to a 2-3. That should be the minimum of tension at all times from now on. Soon enough, it will feel like full relaxation, but it keeps things moving.

Repeat SLOW and extended squeezes and relaxations. For me, 20ish seconds of holding and maybe 5 seconds rest is perfect. Feel free to increase the intensity of the squeezes or the pace somewhat as you build the excitement, but don't get tempted to rush away either. It will NOT work. This thing simply can not be rushed. You NEED your mind to play along, and that wont get there as fast as your conscious mind might want.

Never squeeze harder than maybe 6-7 on the scale. The idea isn't to force the toy at full force into your prostate, but rather allow the reactions your body will have to trigger smaller, involuntary contractions which in turn stimulates you immensely. It may feel subtle at first, but it will grow beyond imagination when you stick with it. Try to find the level of squeeze where you feel the toy moving back and forth despite you actually trying to hold still. These pulses may be very subtle, at least at first, but feel great when you discover them.

Now, the really difficult part, for me at least, is getting from what you might call the equivalent of an edge into actually going over it. It starts off by feeling better and better in my prostate until I almost start loosing control. What kept me from getting release was that this urge and intensity made be greedy and impatient, letting my urge take over, speeding up/squeezing hard as I could in a desperate attempt to get off. This never worked for me. The simple, yet so hard trick, again for me at least, is to insist of keeping a slow, steady contraction pace. Never faster than 10 sec squeeze + 3-4 sec rest. Even when it drives you crazy and you really need to go faster - DONT. Keep it slow and steady even when you think it is killing you. Savor the feelings and ride with them instead of trying to get them over with as soon as possible. The first time I managed that I totally exploded after about a minute or so. Full, massive orgasm, body shaking more or less uncontrollably, and contrary to what many seem to claim is usually the case, I also ejaculated. I did not have the usual orgasmic sensations in the cock at all, it's more like it's coming from the prostate itself, giving more of a full body feel to the experience.

Long story short: Relaxation, patience, consistency. Even when the urge to speed up drives you mad.