Blackmail

[jpo1035]

I am very much into being teased in its many different forms

One thing that has been running through my mind is the thought of being blackmailed. The thought of someone having power over me, by having a compromising photo say, s incredibly appealing whether this took the form of being forced to cum or get hard in difficult situations, be humiliated or by being frogmarched to the cash point.

Am I slightly mad, does anyone share my enthusiasm or does anyone enter onto this sort of thing?

[J4mes]

I can definatly see the appeal of it as you would have absolutely no choice but to obey thier commands. I think its dangerous, you would have to know that you could completely trust the person blackmailing you or things could get very bad

[z_k]

You are definitely not alone in that respect, and there are plenty of dommes that solicit blackmail slaves (though it's generally combined with financial domination); there are even lots of videos on sites like KinkBomb with dommes using teasing and denial to extract information. Like jpo said, though, you need to be careful since you're giving someone an immense amount of control over you.

[dubble]

Oh the thoughts are definitely appealing to a point... being under a hot Domme's control and such, having to be obedient and follow Her orders 'without choice' (some guys might want that kind of intense public humiliation)... but my better sense has always told me 'no' at the last moment because of deeper potential ramifications. I've been SO close to sending sensitive info previously for such a thing. Depends on your life, too, & how much you really have to lose. Wife? Good job? Life savings? Probably the worst thing that would happen would be serious humiliation though after some $ payments, until you can't pay anymore. There's usually a buyout clause, although steep to prevent you from pussing out. How much are you willing to be humiliated & what do you have to potentially lose? If you want a divorce, for sure go for it!

Having someone you trust do this takes away some of the excitement. I have been exploring this too. Seems the 'clips4sale' & 'kinkbomb' sites have some blackmail girls.... Ceara Lynch, Princess Lyne. The word 'blackmail' is usually edited in some form though. Look under 'financial domination'. I always thought it could go much deeper than $... tasking, submission, chastity, real life meetings, deeper submission & deeper blackmail.

I think for me the fantasy is exciting but I'm not sure if I could even go through with it in real life. Maybe a kidnapping scenario is equally exciting for you then? Kidnapped & blackmailed by a couple Dommes, tied, teased, tortured, photographed, etc.?

Some pro Dommes also do this and have their reputation to keep, but it can be a fine line because of potential legalities. I read about guys who do it, go into it, but I do not personally know anyone.

[stevecraigslist]

i have done it. quite the rush but be sure you really want it.

[Xenophobe]

I know someone who would do this: perfectionalltheway.com

[jpo1035]

I did have a look at perfectionalltheway, thank you, but it did look a bit too much money orientated and I am in the UK so a slight problem with distance.

The trouble is the more I think about it the more I want to do it. But as you all say there is a trust issue there and using someone who does this like Pro Dommes does worry me

[Banquo]

This isn't for me, I prefer to see submission and domination as mutually consensual things.
But if it is something you really want to do, as people have said above, trust is going to be immensely important, you need to set strong and firm limits, and know that the person blackmailing you will stick to them. This could be very dangerous otherwise. Would recommend getting to know the other person really really well before beginning this kind of play.

Banquo

[les]

Unfortunately I think TRUST will negate the ultimate. thrill of blackmail.
I fail to see a way for this fetish to be benignly explored.

[Kay Tee]

If you'd actually tried it, you wouldn't find it fun at all.

[jpo1035]

I am not expecting it to be fun, in fact for me that would be missing the point.

As for trust, I don't want to take all the thrill out, but I don't want to be in Jail because of it so there has to be an element of trust.

[jpo1035]

Well I have had aloof round at the pro domes and can't find anything locally, Camberley Surrey UK, suitable.

Anyone got any suggestions?

[les]

Well I have had aloof round at the pro domes and can't find anything locally, Camberley Surrey UK, suitable.

Anyone got any suggestions?

You will have to look towards London

[jpo1035]

Somebody sent me a message about this, but although is showed in my Yahoo account there is nothin in my inbox on here.
Could I ask the person who emailed me to do so again.

Thanks
James

[J4mes]

Somebody sent me a message about this, but although is showed in my Yahoo account there is nothin in my inbox on here.
Could I ask the person who emailed me to do so again.

Thanks
James

Id guess they deleted the unread message before you had chance to read it for some reason