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Begging a Treatise

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How to effectively beg?


                   Discuss........






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Re: Begging a Treatise

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I'm no sure there is a specific nack to begging, its all a matter of personality, both of the sub and the dom/me.
Other than that I think it is about wanting what you are begging for enough to make it sincere.

It also helps to have puppy dog eyes:

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Re: Begging a Treatise

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Begging didn't work not for me anyway ;-)
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J4mes wrote:Begging didn't work not for me anyway ;-)


Well hopefully replies to this thread will help you hone those skills.

There are big difference between begging, moaning, and complaining.

Each have their uses but must be used at the right time and circumstances.
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les wrote:
J4mes wrote:Begging didn't work not for me anyway ;-)


Well hopefully replies to this thread will help you hone those skills.

There are big difference between begging, moaning, and complaining.

Each have their uses but must be used at the right time and circumstances.
Yep I do need to learn the differance I think I just end up complaining when I try to beg :-P
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Re: Begging a Treatise

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Banquo wrote:I'm no sure there is a specific nack to begging, its all a matter of personality, both of the sub and the dom/me.
Other than that I think it is about wanting what you are begging for enough to make it sincere.

It also helps to have puppy dog eyes:
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That method does not always work

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Knowing a little backround
I am going to contribute

there are actually 2 kinds of begging
one when you in the mddle of a task and massively frustrated
usually
something simple like
"Oh please oh please"
or
"moan, master..."
is about all your brain can process

I do agree that different doms ask for differetnt styles of begging.

when Not stroking or edging
it is a little more, possible to compose a more flowery note
like:
"Bow, Master I kiss your boot I am not worthy but please listen to my request"

I do use poetry sometimes to express my desires
and have seen others too
but writing a 20 line poem is tricky when all the blood is out of your head.

now I know one Dom who asked for Specific phrases
and ignored the "please oh please" style of begging
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is my other profile. see my chastity belt link :
http://www.milovana.com/forum/viewtopic ... 16#p139016
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i find that when begging to cum for example it always helps to relate it back to your Domme. E.g. instead of "Please let me cum Mistress" the phrase "please let me cum for you Mistress" will usually yield better results. Or a slapping if she thinks im sucking up too much :-P
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sleepy_rob wrote:i find that when begging to cum for example it always helps to relate it back to your Domme. E.g. instead of "Please let me cum Mistress" the phrase "please let me cum for you Mistress" will usually yield better results. Or a slapping if she thinks im sucking up too much :-P

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                    OR
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*sits back and listens*
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Re: Begging a Treatise

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Banquo wrote:I'm no sure there is a specific nack to begging, its all a matter of personality, both of the sub and the dom/me.
Other than that I think it is about wanting what you are begging for enough to make it sincere.

It also helps to have puppy dog eyes:

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Ohhhh Banq I :love: this picture its so cute!!

Have tried fluttering my eyelashes a thousand times and it really doesnt work for me!

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