I missed this one, huh? ;)jp wrote:
Well, I guess I could ask: Has any guy ever won one of your mind games? (In other words, beat you at your own game.) I don't really think that's a very good question, though. Oh well.
You can ask any kind of question in return.
Have you ever masturbated in a public place? If so, tell me the most recent time, and why you did it (what you were thinking about or experienced that lead you to do it, ect.).
CuriousBoy79 wrote:I have to say, I'm a hoopy frood who knows where his towel is...
anyway, the question of the hour...
my friends and I play a game... usually when we're traveling, without the company of the fairer sex... we'll stop at a restaurant we'll probably never eat at again, and we've got from the time the waitress seats us until we ask for the check to determine, without asking or direct examination, what color her panties are...
when we get the check, the one with the closest color guess doesn't have to pay their share...
if you were a waitress, how would you feel after the game, when we explained the game and asked you for the color?
once again, any questions are fair game...
There was definitely a time where the thought of guys gawking at me like that would make me want to vomit. But I kind of got used to being constantly checked out, asked out, having my ass slapped, ect. Somewhere along the line I kind of grew to like the attention. It's the feeling of "hmmm, if I wanted to..."...walking through the place and looking at my tables and thinking, "I could have him if I wanted to, or him, or him..." Then came a little playful flirting here and there to feed it. I've never been a promiscuous person, but it became a turn on to me that if I felt like it, I could have sex with just about any guy that walked through the door. Not that I ever would, in 99% of the cases. ;)
I don't really like admitting it outloud, but I get off on making guys want me. Not just sexually though. Any girl can throw on some clothes that barely cover her body and get guys to look at her. She can get guys to want to take her home and fuck her. I've always been kinda of a nice, polite person. And I knew guys liked me because of that. But it was like opening up a whole new world the day I realized, "Wait a minute...i'm hot, why did I not realize this before. The possibilities are endless!" LOL. I don't see it as being vain. I'm just confident with my body, and I like the feeling of using that to get positive attention from guys, not just my personality. I've never cheated on anyone i've been with, and i'd never do anything to hurt a guy I care about. But I do like the feeling of being wanted, and it's fun to play games with guys and feed that.
There are still some kinds of guys that make me feel like bugs are crawling all over my skin when I know they're looking at me. But other types of people are fun to flirt with and I don't see any harm in it, as I enjoy the attention, and they enjoy getting to look at me and flirt with me knowing that i'm not grossed out. Truthfully, I still have a closet-full of white fitted blouses, black fitted pants, and neck ties. I think I feel more attractive wearing that then when I put on a nice dress for a wedding or something similar. ;)
Oh, and I don't think you'd fall into the 'bugs crawling all over me' category. ;)
-L
P.S. That was a freebie, and your question to answer (should you feel obligated) is...have you ever cheated on a girl you've been in a relationship? If so, who was the sex better with and why?


