I think I share most of your views on femdom and dominant trash talking etc. Not my cup of tea either.Nezhul wrote:Also, I'm not into submission stuff very much, for me OD is not about being submissive, not about lending someone else a control over me, but just about enchansing the pleasure. I'm afraid most of her material will be about submission and femdom, which is not actually my thing.
But fortunately, nikki's work falls right into the "playfully and respectfully dominant based on the idea that I as a subject *wants* to submit" category of domination - which I love. Being dominated is great when, and only when, it is based on your choice to submit - something you do because you want to, because you love and respect your domina and is something that empowers you. Many vanilla people think submission is weakness while it is in fact the very opposite.
Of all female domination I've ever encountered and submitted to I think I can truthfully say Nikki's work is the best style and approach I've seen - because it is based on the values mentioned above, as well as being of remarkable quality as a bonus.