The Deck of Denial
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Re: The Deck of Denial
Sorry to hear that reality breaks your plans. I understand what you feel really well, because I had to abandon any denial play for the last two months too. Focus and denial just don't mix. Now my examination is over and I wish you good luck with yours :)
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Re: The Deck of Denial
New page - re-posting of the rules....I will put them in a spoiler, so it doesn't take up as much room, but they are here if you need them.
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Re: The Deck of Denial
Sorry about going missing for a few days. I did try and comment on Sunday evening while the rest of the family were watching the Super Bowl, but me and typing on my I-Pod...soooo not a good combination. *lol* I kept making errors and it took me about five minutes to type one sentence.....I gave up.
Anyway.....
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As you know with your studying....sometimes life just happens and changes the plans that you thought you were going to do, and that's why I haven't been around - life happened.
I think you did great and although you didn't get to finish, I hope you enjoyed the days that you were able to do. *smile*
I don't think punishment is a good thing, in this case. I wasn't punished because I had to quit.....so you shouldn't be either. If you decide to take up the game at a later date, I think it would be fair that you start your days over again though, before you are able to draw another card, like I will do, when I start on the 15th.
I hope you still take a peek now and then.....and good luck with your studying *soft smile*
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The test game I did with Master did not have number cards, so it was quite the shocker when I drew a two the first time out of the gate. *lol*
I really, really want to succeed with this 9 day thing.....it will be a new record for me. *smile*
So, when are you going to draw your first card??? *grin*
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Master, I have a question. I came up with this, due to janmb's comment.
For those of us that draw number cards, when we are done with that particular task, even though it will take a day to get a response from you, may we beg you to have an orgasm before beginning the next round of drawing? *blushing smile*
If you say yes,, that we may beg you, I will add an amendment to the rules for you. *soft smile*
Anyway.....
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I'm sorry that I wasn't here to urge you on and hope that part of your stopping wasn't because no one was here to support you.Zoli wrote:
I hoped I can do it at least for a month, or even when I finished but I must stop now, I must focus on learning:(. I will punish myself with no touch for the end of the week, and if you think, you can punish me either Dr. D or Shell. I'm really sorry, and hope for a new start in the future, and if I will start it I will do it with 2 decks from the start.
As you know with your studying....sometimes life just happens and changes the plans that you thought you were going to do, and that's why I haven't been around - life happened.
I think you did great and although you didn't get to finish, I hope you enjoyed the days that you were able to do. *smile*
I don't think punishment is a good thing, in this case. I wasn't punished because I had to quit.....so you shouldn't be either. If you decide to take up the game at a later date, I think it would be fair that you start your days over again though, before you are able to draw another card, like I will do, when I start on the 15th.
I hope you still take a peek now and then.....and good luck with your studying *soft smile*
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This really made me smile....the whole, "cruel - love it" thing. *giggling*janmb wrote:
Specifically thinking about the numbered cards... A bad draw there, say 5+10, means 5 edges every day for 10 days, right? Which in turn means you are efficiently denied for 10 days before even getting another shot at the 1:55 of release... Cruel! In other words, love it.
The test game I did with Master did not have number cards, so it was quite the shocker when I drew a two the first time out of the gate. *lol*
I really, really want to succeed with this 9 day thing.....it will be a new record for me. *smile*
So, when are you going to draw your first card??? *grin*
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Master, I have a question. I came up with this, due to janmb's comment.
For those of us that draw number cards, when we are done with that particular task, even though it will take a day to get a response from you, may we beg you to have an orgasm before beginning the next round of drawing? *blushing smile*
If you say yes,, that we may beg you, I will add an amendment to the rules for you. *soft smile*
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Re: The Deck of Denial
My serfs know:-
Personal health, Family and Work/Education
These are all far more important than my tasks,
And are mandatory/legal reasons to pause.
So these are never punished, but I do need to be kept informed.
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Be careful what you wish for!
Growing OLD Is Inevitable,
But Growing UP... Is Optional
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Why do I have to stop being a KID now I can afford it.
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Re: The Deck of Denial
shell wrote:This really made me smile....the whole, "cruel - love it" thing. *giggling*
Heh, I couldn't resist a test draw either and you won't believe this: joker + queen of hearts. Not kidding - really!shell wrote:The test game I did with Master did not have number cards, so it was quite the shocker when I drew a two the first time out of the gate. *lol*
The odds of that is 3/55 x 1/54 = 1.8%
Fair assumption that lady luck will be looking in a different direction when the time comes for the first real draw
Yes, I most certainly CAN do it again!
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Re: The Deck of Denial
Shell and Les
Thanks for these words, I really thankful for these nice words. I hope I can start this again in some times. I think not before July so I dont promise anything.
I recommend for anyone to join, this is a great game of fate.:)
Thanks for these words, I really thankful for these nice words. I hope I can start this again in some times. I think not before July so I dont promise anything.
I recommend for anyone to join, this is a great game of fate.:)
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OH MY GOD!!!! I want your kind of luck!!!! *laughing*janmb wrote:Heh, I couldn't resist a test draw either and you won't believe this: joker + queen of hearts. Not kidding - really!
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The odds of that is 3/55 x 1/54 = 1.8%![]()
Fair assumption that lady luck will be looking in a different direction when the time comes for the first real draw
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Re: The Deck of Denial
shell wrote: I don't think punishment is a good thing, in this case. I wasn't punished because I had to quit.....so you shouldn't be either. If you decide to take up the game at a later date, I think it would be fair that you start your days over again though, before you are able to draw another card, like I will do, when I start on the 15th.
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Master, I have a question. I came up with this, due to janmb's comment.
For those of us that draw number cards, when we are done with that particular task, even though it will take a day to get a response from you, may we beg you to have an orgasm before beginning the next round of drawing? *blushing smile*
Zoli you should not be punished for quiting the game to focus on your class work and if you want to play the game again , do what Shell is going to do and just start over.
there is no need for any one to beg me for an orgasm Shell , when the last edge is done so is the task , so unles you have orders from your Dom/ Domme, your free to enjoy an orgasm .............or to pick another card , its your choice, but remember your health and safty comes first.
and Janmb.......you should play the lottery with that kind of luck.
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Re: The Deck of Denial
Okie dokie *Smile* Thank you for responding Master.dr.d wrote: there is no need for any one to beg me for an orgasm Shell , when the last edge is done so is the task , so unless you have orders from your Dom/ Domme, your free to enjoy an orgasm .............or to pick another card , its your choice, but remember your health and safety comes first.
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Re: The Deck of Denial
dr.d and shell: Yeah it was extreme luck for sure, only pity it was a test draw and not the real thing (in other words I didn't act on it)
As for drawing my first card for real - I certainly will, soon. Just doing LMJ's "comeback" game first
As for drawing my first card for real - I certainly will, soon. Just doing LMJ's "comeback" game first
Yes, I most certainly CAN do it again!
Re: The Deck of Denial
Yes, it appears as the entire community has shown up for Miss Jay's return. *giggling*janmb wrote:dr.d and shell: Yeah it was extreme luck for sure, only pity it was a test draw and not the real thing (in other words I didn't act on it)
As for drawing my first card for real - I certainly will, soon. Just doing LMJ's "comeback" game first
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Re: The Deck of Denial
Thanks for bringing this to my attention Shell. Having read the instructions I'm not sure I'm going to be able to do all of this so I'm going to have a think over the weekend. Although with my luck at card games it may not last as long as it should! lol
Someday a real rain will come and wash all this scum off the streets.
Re: The Deck of Denial
I totally understand.....perhaps, we can twist up the rules a little...and if you draw cards that you don't think you can do, you can give up some control to me.....and I will tell you what you can do ...instead. *wicked smile*Streetsweeper wrote:Thanks for bringing this to my attention Shell. Having read the instructions I'm not sure I'm going to be able to do all of this so I'm going to have a think over the weekend. Although with my luck at card games it may not last as long as it should! lol
I am having to wait longer, to start back up, then I originally thought I would, before starting again. Master and I both do not know if I can make it the whole nine days or not. That is a really long time for me......
Master has reminded me of my safe words and if I just can't do it, I will call "yellow" and not beat myself up for it.
We all are different...where some could do nine days, without even thinking about it....for me to do five days, is intense.
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Hi Shell,shell wrote:I totally understand.....perhaps, we can twist up the rules a little...and if you draw cards that you don't think you can do, you can give up some control to me.....and I will tell you what you can do ...instead. *wicked smile*Streetsweeper wrote:Thanks for bringing this to my attention Shell. Having read the instructions I'm not sure I'm going to be able to do all of this so I'm going to have a think over the weekend. Although with my luck at card games it may not last as long as it should! lol
I am having to wait longer, to start back up, then I originally thought I would, before starting again. Master and I both do not know if I can make it the whole nine days or not. That is a really long time for me......
Master has reminded me of my safe words and if I just can't do it, I will call "yellow" and not beat myself up for it.
We all are different...where some could do nine days, without even thinking about it....for me to do five days, is intense.
That does sound interesting! :)
I will make a decision tomorrow and start then if I'm going to have a go. Although I really dont think I'll be able to play until I reach the Queen of Hearts unless my luck turns up lol.
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Re: The Deck of Denial
I think that for most of us, standing months of hard edging without cumming is just out of reach. First, it requires some exceptional willpower that very few of us have, and second - we still live in the real world, and sooner or later something will make us give up with the denial (for me it's the examination time four times a year). I'd love to take part in this challenge (because I'm really into random based sexual games!), but knowing that for 99% i won't be able to complete it stops me from trying :(
(Actually so far I've failed in all games that I took part here at Milovana. I guess I suck at self control.
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(Actually so far I've failed in all games that I took part here at Milovana. I guess I suck at self control.
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