Official "I'm Looking For A Domme, Dom or sub" Thread

[metalhusky]

Looking for a Domme or Dom, I'm a 23 year old bi submissive living in texas. I have open limits up to the point of extreme pain, blood and the like. Kinda new so still figuring out what I like and don't like, I'm the type of person to try things once and more if i like it. Got a webcam and multiple messengers to do long distance or over the internet or if things work i will be willing to relocate.

[kingsnake]

Horny 18 year old, very new looking to be played with and denied.
I am very into being tied, humiliated and abused. Also I am new to this so still working on limits etc but if you are willing to dominate me add me on msn or skype.

MSN - [email protected]

Skype - Kingsnake10011

[spring44field]

I am looking for a domme.

I am 44 years old and straight.
I'm here looking for some explorations and experiences. Just let your imagination make me horny, edging and maybe cumming in the way you want.

I also wish to keep my submissive side purely online with no interest in a real-life domme / sub relationship.

Anyone interested?

[rockhardn]

hello
i am a master looking for a sub for online fun and pleasure
pm me now bitch so i can fuck with you !!!!

[esolo]

18/m/Chicago here, looking for a Domme or Mistress. Ideally, you are local, around my age (under 25?), and willing to explore with me, laugh with me, and fuck things up every now and again.

Let me get the things I am not out of the way right now. I am not:

-A Mindless Submissive.
-Your Wallet.
-Worthless.
-An Extension of You.

I am:

A submissive. "Well Esolo, what does that mean," you may ask.

Submission to me means that I make my Dominant or Top, whichever you may be, happy. That doesn't mean that I don't have my own limits and likes, and if you so choose, you can do things to me that I distinctly enjoy, but you don't have to do so to make my submission meaningful. It's enough to me to know that you are taking pleasure in the things that you are doing to me, so that even if I don't necessarily enjoy them, I have a reason to accept them. I am equally at home in the roles of bratty, insolent submissive and devoted, attentive submissive. For that reason, if for whatever reason you strongly prefer that I act a certain way whilst submitting to you, tell me, and I will moderate my behavior accordingly.

Some of the people that I've played with have this weird conception that once things are negotiated before a scene, they don't get to step outside of those boundaries. Please rid yourself of that conception. I like surprises. The best scene I've had to date was one in which I had no idea of what was going to happen, except that it wasn't going to conflict with my limits. So, tops/Dommes, if you want to do something in a scene that we haven't necessarily talked about, go ahead! I don't mind, and you won't scare me off.

That being said, the one and only way that you will scare me off is if you try to bring something into a scene that we have expressly stated was NOT going to happen. My limits are mine, and the hard ones aren't changing mid-scene. Not for you, and not for anyone else.

I'm currently looking for both play partners and those seeking something a bit deeper and more stable. I'm not monogamous by any stretch of the word, but I do see a difference between casual play partners and...something else.

I'm always willing to chat, so feel free to send me a message and say hi! I don't bite, that's your job. :)

My hard limits are: Scat, Blood, Medical Play, CBT, and Fire Play. Other than that, pretty much anything is on the table.

Some of the things that I have found I very much enjoy are: aftercare (receiving), asking permission, ass play (receiving), ball gags (wearing), bare bottom spanking (receiving), bdsm (receiving), biting (receiving), blindfolds (wearing), bondage (receiving), collar and lead/leash (wearing), d/s, discipline (everything to do with it), flogging (receiving), handcuffs (wearing), having my neck bitten till my knees buckle, helplessness, humiliation (receiving), impact play (receiving), power exchange (everything to do with it), protocol, restraints (wearing), sensation play (receiving), service (giving), snark (giving), snuggling, spanking (receiving), submission (giving), subspace, subtle acts of d/s in public, suspension (receiving), talking dirty (receiving), teasing (receiving), vibrators (receiving), wartenberg pinwheels (receiving).

Things I am curious about but have not yet had the opportunity to try: butt plugs (receiving), caging/confinement (receiving), cross dressing (receiving), dildos (receiving), face sitting/smothering (receiving), face slapping (receiving), facesitting (receiving), forced feminization (receiving), master/slave (receiving), mind fucks (receiving), objectification (receiving), orgasm control (receiving), panty gagging (receiving), petplay, role play (everything to do with it), smothering (receiving), speech restriction (receiving), strap-ons (receiving), verbal humiliation and degradation (receiving), violet wands, whips (everything to do with it).


Apologies for the wall of text, but it seems as if more is better, in this case. The more information I can give you, the more likely it is that you will know if you are intrigued by me or not.

[Dracornis]

23/m/Germany/NRW

I'm looking for a female dom.
Since i lack real experience i can just tell you, what i find erotic when it comes to text-roleplay or teases.

That would be: Abduction-Play, Rape-play, slavery, bondage and more..
i want to find my limits, explore my fantasies, and making my dom happy.

Best would be a german mistress, since i would be happy to let it slip from online to real experiences.

But all mistresses are encouraged to enslave me.

Just PM me, and we will talk about it.
I would be happy to hear from you!

Greetings, Jan

[dbcooper]

Hi I am a 25 year old male from britain looking for a online dom. I can send pictures of all the tasks that i am set. I am fairly new to the scene so will need some training. I am interested in CBT, Worship, Latex clothing, tease and denial. Thanks for reading this if you are interested pm me please

[mistressb123]

Hi everyone,

I'm a real life mistress since about 5 years. I don't do it as a life style, but really like to play and my husband is always a sub when we are have intercourses. I used to play with more than one sub, but since I'm married, I do this almost never. That's why I'm new in web communities. I would like to dominate some slaves on a regular basis over the web. Here's some guidelines to help you know if we might like to play together:

- I'm into many fetishes: orgam control and denial, ruined orgasms, cum eating/training, mild cbt, huniliation, edging, masturbation programs, and some others...
- I will not send picture, videos nor will I get online with a web cam. I have a private life and don't want that kind of material to spread over the net. Please don't ask. However I may request that from you ;)
- I do this for my own pleasure. That means I will not charge for it, but I will be very selective and take only few devoted sub for my amusement.

If you would like to apply, please provide the following:

- You name, email and other useful information to contact you (skype, etc...)
- Your relationship status. Do you live with someone? who? please be honnest, since it will change the assignments I'll give to you.
-Your fetishes and limits.
- Be original and convince me I'll have fun with you. Remember I only take a few...
- Private messages only. I will not reply in this thread nor will I contact you for replying here.

Can't wait to play ;)

Have a nice day!

Mistress B.

[HornyAlex]

Hello, freshly 18 year old male here looking for dom/mes to tease/deny this boy,
Take control of my orgasms and masturbation on webcam!
Ultimately to train me to gain self-control over my masturbation and achieve wet dreams!

Tease and deny me as you wish but reward good behavior.

I'm fully shaved neck down and I'm very willing to get infront of a webcam for lessons
or if you just want to watch me so I don't touch myself without permission.

My focus also needs to be directed to my anus so I would rather 'masturbate' that way.

PM me if you're interested.

Few facts;
I own some crossdressing things.
I would prefer Skype for webcam sessions.
Grammar is sexy, makes you look more serious.
As I'm writing this, it's been 5 days since I came.

[whf]

Im looking for a Mistress, who would like to train me anyway she like's.
i wish to be instructed on what to do, if i don't get it right punished, in whatever
way mistress wants,im new to this but would love to be controlled by mistress.
thanks for looking.
whf

[Steph]

im 20 in the uk looking for someone to control me, tell me what to do and what to wear
i love crossdressing and love denial and bondage
please please pm me i really want someone to control me on here

[Kostaras]

Hi i'm 20 years old male..
I'm looking for a mistress to give full control of my orgasms and masturbation.. I will only masturbate only when allowed and how my mistress wants me to and cum whenever my mistress desires it..
Pm me if you're interested in having your very own stroker that he will perform for you whenever you want him to

[alan4fun]

Submissive guy interested in tease and denial.

Looking for gay/ bisexual doms interested in online training with mild anal, pain, forced bi.

Got webcam. If interested PM me

[Se7en]

Hello,

Just to reiterate what I posted in the 'welcome thread'. I'm a 26 year old male Dom from the United Kingdom who's currently looking for a submissive male/tg sissy who would be interested in some online play.

If you feel as though you may be interested, feel free to inbox me and we can discuss things further.

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[milovanov]

I'm a 24 year old slave and would like to be controlled by a powerful Mistress/Master.
I'm willing to do whatever ordered inside my limits and i am very obedient.

List of likes

humiliation
cbt
tease and denial
ruining
cum eating
light pain

List of dislikes

anal
long denial
scat/pee/blood/permanent damage
public

Feel free ro pm me,im ready to submit,Milo