BlueBalls Question!

[bobby9600]

Hi Gang, my girlfriend wants some diamond earrings for her birthday. I think she has me where she wants me! She has me going on 3 weeks now without cumming and she says it will be a lot loooonger if she doesn't get what she wants! So here's the question:

Should I buy her what she wants in the hopes she's let me cum?

[green]

Do so... If you wanna be her slave.

If you wanna be a man... Than f***ing act like that

xD

[Alliteration]

Hi Gang, my girlfriend wants some diamond earrings for her birthday. I think she has me where she wants me! She has me going on 3 weeks now without cumming and she says it will be a lot loooonger if she doesn't get what she wants! So here's the question:

Should I buy her what she wants in the hopes she's let me cum?

That sounds more like extortion than D/s, to be honest. Would you buy them for her anyway if you weren't denied? And is something like that realistically within your budget?

[Dream_On]

I'm pretty sure you can find a cheaper hooker than that.

[shell]

In my opinion, I think you should save your money, leave the girlfriend and find someone that won't blackmail you into submission.
Submission is given to the dominate out of love, respect and need to submit. If she were telling you that you couldn't cum until she has had 10 orgasms, that you have given to her by fucking her, without cumming.....THEN you have something worth holding on to.
But what she is doing....that is simply and completely wrong!

[ballsfull]

Should I buy her what she wants in the hopes she's let me cum?

ONLY if you're prepared to be denied until you buy her a ~car~ the NEXT time she wants something....
And trust me, she WILL...

Otherwise, please re-read Shell's post above....
And re-read it AGAIN if you're still not sure.....

[les]

Nods sagely at all the replies.

           I think you should cut and run.
                      If you win this time things will get more sneaky.
                                 If she wins this time things will get more extortionate.

[mistyrain]

I'm pretty sure you can find a cheaper hooker than that.

I'd let you cum for a nice hat

[ballsfull]

I'm pretty sure you can find a cheaper hooker than that.

I'd let you cum for a nice hat

Samantha!! Your first post!!

I always ~knew~ you'd come out of your shell sooner or later....
Great to see you...

[SissyTashi]

In my opinion, I think you should save your money, leave the girlfriend and find someone that won't blackmail you into submission.
Submission is given to the dominate out of love, respect and need to submit. If she were telling you that you couldn't cum until she has had 10 orgasms, that you have given to her by fucking her, without cumming.....THEN you have something worth holding on to.
But what she is doing....that is simply and completely wrong!

I'm agreeing with this almost entirely, but with one caveat;


Some couples are into the kind of monetary domination that the OP described. If he can afford it, and it's not something she does out of cruelty, I don't see much of a problem with it.

If he *can't* afford it (as in, he'd have to give up actual needs instead of luxuries to be able to procure) then it's extortion and should not be happening at all.

[Handcuffed]

If you do end up buying it, please make sure they're not blood diamonds; see http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Blood_diamond.

[Bandit224]

Diamonds... They're just a fucking rock