All of us were kids, and for most of us Parents are not too eager to graphically discuss how sex is made (and some parents are not even eager to tell that there actually IS such thing as sex, thus exploring the vast plains of cabbages and storks).
So how and when did you find the technical details of childmaking, i.e. that boy's cock goes into a girl's pussy, and so on?
For me - I was quite late. Even though my parents gave me special books for children, and we were shown educational cartoons about it at school, the explanation and pictures were so bad, that I didn't actually get the idea then. I don't remember my age, but it was about 12 or 14 years old when I found a porn tape at home and had the chance to view it. Funny thing - when the actors first got to actually sex - I couldn't understand what parts of women's body were being used, because there were either close ups of a fucked pussy or her upper body. Took me watching more to get the idea, and that was when I finally knew the thing. That said at first I found cunnilingus much hotter than frictions, and still find it the necessary thing to do in bed.
so, how did YOU find?
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It just came piece by piece. I don't remember details but when I got interested in that topic it was somewhat like a puzzle. Didn't really ask anyone for some reason. Well I did, I asked my mother about childmaking back when I was a kid and I think she told me (after I asked her for days) but as it was quite a long story I lost interest very soon and didn't really listen to what shewas saying . After that she refused telling me again because she had told me before and I didn't listen. Yeah, I guess when someone's telling you the answer to a big question you should listen to this answer
Separating "what feels good", from "sex" and "child making" was complicated to me as a child.
Having been touched, before I could speak, I learned that touching felt good.
Sex and child making become one in my mind for a very long time. You WOULD have a baby, if you had sex.
At five, because I was masturbating all the time, my parents sat down with my brother and I, and what started out as a "you can't masturbate - it's a sin" conversation turned into the "talk", the penis in the vagina" topic.
For a long time I had trouble understanding that the penis did not go into where pee came out of. I was terrified before that, because that hole was very tiny.
I was an endless bank of questions, always asking this and that about sex, sometimes in the most inappropriate places, like a restaurant or church. I honestly didn't know why my mom's face turned as red as is did, but it was always followed up with "we will talk about it..."LATER". And to my parents great disappointment, I never forgot to bring it up again...."later".
Discussions took place on the play ground, and because my parents had had the talk with me, I was the expert in this area, and took pride in that. Of course my parents weren't thrilled when parents would call them, ranting and raving that their child heard this or that on the playground that day. *blushing* It's not my fault!!!! *lol*
*wonders.........did I answer the question somewhere up there* *laughing* I get so side tracked!!!
So difficult to recall
I would say I was educated
by actually having sex with a dominate girl
when I was an older teen.
But sex... and enjoyable intimate love making
are different things for me
I am glad I finally learned intimacy
and denial.
I used to try to deny myself when I would masturbate because I thought cumming when masturbating was "evil' and "sinful" and it was not until I stumble upon webteases that I realized what I liked.
Nezhul wrote:That said at first I found cunnilingus much hotter than frictions, and still find it the necessary thing to do in bed.
so, how did YOU find?
Porn magazine, around the age of 8.
As for the part I quoted, I agree 100% and still do.
Hands and mouth/tongue will forever remain a better tool for satisfying a girl than a cock is, and that has nothing to do with not cutting it in bed. Likewise, I find it equally "boring" on the receiving end of "normal" penetration sex - hands and mouth, or toys, is always more fun - both as giver and receiver. For me.
Penetration is al very well, but in the end of the day too vanilla to be any real fun. It's great emotionally and too connect (as well as great cuddling after), but purely technically, hands and mouth beats genitals any day of the week
shell, are you saying you were masturbating at 5? It's just I don't think many kids are even interested in other sex at that age (pure technical interest IMO)... Always thought people start being sexual at older ages...
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Nezhul wrote:shell, are you saying you were masturbating at 5? It's just I don't think many kids are even interested in other sex at that age (pure technical interest IMO)... Always thought people start being sexual at older ages...
No, I was masturbating at age four, actually. Although I don't remember everything, I remembered the room, remembered telling a lie about what I was fixin to do.
Years later, with mom's help, my describing the room, she was able to pick out which house it was, and how old I would have been.
I remember at age five teaching my best friend how to masturbate.
[quote="shell"
No, I was masturbating at age four, actually. Although I don't remember everything, I remembered the room, remembered telling a lie about what I was fixin to do.
Years later, with mom's help, my describing the room, she was able to pick out which house it was, and how old I would have been.
I remember at age five teaching my best friend how to masturbate.
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Wow! I have a friend (who lives in my state, but I've never met) who started at eight and I thought that was early! She has confessed to me that she is a nympho. So I'm just curious, shell, would you also identify yourself as being a nympho?
Hi I'm new but topic interested me so much i thought i would comment. :)
Quick about me im half italian, half Japanese, 18 years old, 6ft, 75kg, black hair, light brown eyes.
Please correct me if I do anything wrong
So for ages all i knew was that "babies are born when a man and a woman love each other very very much" courtesy of my parents.
It wasn't until i was 14 that i knew what sex really entails. At first i became interested because some people were watching porn on their phones at school and making jokes i didn't understand. I was so ignorant of sex that when i looked up porn later on that night i had no idea what to do. I would sit watching porn with a huge erection not touching myself :S. That day i sat there for about 2hours watching porn sexually frustrated but no knowing how to relieve it. In the end i turned off the computer and stopped watching porn.
One or two months later however, i began hanging out with some people around the age of 16 (3-4years older than me) because this one girl thought i was cute. Her body was equivalent to a 18yr old and i thought she was very attractive. She was blonde with green eyes and big breasts. I still don’t know why she liked me. She was one of those type of girls who can get anyone they want. Although she’s at university I still have a sort of crush on her. She could ask me to do almost anything and I would. She was funny, smart, assertive, kind and very sexual but don’t get me started on her… anyways >>
One day after playing at her house with some friends I decided it was time to head back to my house which was about 20minutes away and she said she would walk with me. We were talking and I kept making jokes just so i could see her beautiful smile. On the way home she pushed me up against a tree in the park about 5 minutes away from my house and started kissing me. I’ve had girlfriends in the past but all we had done was hold hands as i was too scared to do anything else :S.
I just followed her lead and tried to mimic what her tongue was doing. After few minutes she started rubbing me through my pants. I was so turned on at that point that i was leaking through but i still didn’t know what to do. So as she pulled my pants down i just stood there awkwardly looking around asking if we should be doing this. When it finally flopped out I stopped all my questions and I guess was sort of stunned. When she took me in her mouth I moaned involuntarily and after a minute or so (don't laugh) i shouted out and collapsed on the grass. After a few minutes to catch my breath she asked “was that good?” and smiled. She still took me home :) that’s what i call a win.
After that i had more and more sexual experiences with her and i guess she was the one who really taught me about sex. I learned how to perform cullingus from her amongst other things. I still havn’t had sex, even with her haha *scratches back of head*. I’m still shy like that. She was gentle and dominant at the same time and I’ve always been too scared to open myself up to other women like I had with her.
Anyway….
Sorry for writing such a long reply I just wanted to share my experience thoroughly.
I guess now I’m not a reply virgin. That’s a bonus
I enjoyed reading all your experiences and I Hope you enjoyed mine.
[quote="shell"
No, I was masturbating at age four, actually. Although I don't remember everything, I remembered the room, remembered telling a lie about what I was fixin to do.
Years later, with mom's help, my describing the room, she was able to pick out which house it was, and how old I would have been.
I remember at age five teaching my best friend how to masturbate.
Wow! I have a friend (who lives in my state, but I've never met) who started at eight and I thought that was early! She has confessed to me that she is a nympho. So I'm just curious, shell, would you also identify yourself as being a nympho?[/quote]
Actually yes, I am a nymphomaniac. I was diagnosed back in the 90's. That might have something to do with what I did then and what I do now. *smile*
Hi I'm new but topic interested me so much i thought i would comment. :)
Quick about me im half italian, half Japanese, 18 years old, 6ft, 75kg, black hair, light brown eyes.
Please correct me if I do anything wrong
So for ages all i knew was that "babies are born when a man and a woman love each other very very much" courtesy of my parents.
It wasn't until i was 14 that i knew what sex really entails. At first i became interested because some people were watching porn on their phones at school and making jokes i didn't understand. I was so ignorant of sex that when i looked up porn later on that night i had no idea what to do. I would sit watching porn with a huge erection not touching myself :S. That day i sat there for about 2hours watching porn sexually frustrated but no knowing how to relieve it. In the end i turned off the computer and stopped watching porn.
One or two months later however, i began hanging out with some people around the age of 16 (3-4years older than me) because this one girl thought i was cute. Her body was equivalent to a 18yr old and i thought she was very attractive. She was blonde with green eyes and big breasts. I still don’t know why she liked me. She was one of those type of girls who can get anyone they want. Although she’s at university I still have a sort of crush on her. She could ask me to do almost anything and I would. She was funny, smart, assertive, kind and very sexual but don’t get me started on her… anyways >>
One day after playing at her house with some friends I decided it was time to head back to my house which was about 20minutes away and she said she would walk with me. We were talking and I kept making jokes just so i could see her beautiful smile. On the way home she pushed me up against a tree in the park about 5 minutes away from my house and started kissing me. I’ve had girlfriends in the past but all we had done was hold hands as i was too scared to do anything else :S.
I just followed her lead and tried to mimic what her tongue was doing. After few minutes she started rubbing me through my pants. I was so turned on at that point that i was leaking through but i still didn’t know what to do. So as she pulled my pants down i just stood there awkwardly looking around asking if we should be doing this. When it finally flopped out I stopped all my questions and I guess was sort of stunned. When she took me in her mouth I moaned involuntarily and after a minute or so (don't laugh) i shouted out and collapsed on the grass. After a few minutes to catch my breath she asked “was that good?” and smiled. She still took me home :) that’s what i call a win.
After that i had more and more sexual experiences with her and i guess she was the one who really taught me about sex. I learned how to perform cullingus from her amongst other things. I still havn’t had sex, even with her haha *scratches back of head*. I’m still shy like that. She was gentle and dominant at the same time and I’ve always been too scared to open myself up to other women like I had with her.
Anyway….
Sorry for writing such a long reply I just wanted to share my experience thoroughly.
I guess now I’m not a reply virgin. That’s a bonus
I enjoyed reading all your experiences and I Hope you enjoyed mine.
So, if I understood you correctly, you have not had penetration, but have received and given oral sex?
If that is right, why do you think you still, "haven't had sex"? *gentle smile*
shell wrote:So, if I understood you correctly, you have not had penetration, but have received and given oral sex?
If that is right, why do you think you still, "haven't had sex"? *gentle smile*
That simply the problem of how you understand sex. For some oral acts are still sex, for others sex is only an act with penetration. Actually I'll agree to the second opinion. Oral is fun, but that's not sex.
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. After that she refused telling me again because she had told me before and I didn't listen. Yeah, I guess when someone's telling you the answer to a big question you should listen to this answer 
