Stroking Speed And Other Questions

[Stair_Car]

I'd like to ask the people of Milovana some questions that will make my teases better.

First off, what is a good stroking speed for coming? Assume you've had plenty of chance to get aroused, and these are full strokes, and you've got some wonderful eye candy. I know, it's possible to get off at almost any speed, but if a tease tells you to stroke once every two seconds, will that leave you in frustration? At what speed does it become difficult for you to NOT come?

Also, has anyone ever counted the number of strokes they use, for example in a tease? I'd be interested to know how many strokes most people here need in order to get off.

This info would be really useful for calibrating the "difficulty" level of teases, so please let me know if you can.

[perik43]

Hi :)
I think it is very difficult so say exactly which speed is needed to cum. I think it depends very much on the age the person have.
Me, i am 44 and i normally need 3-4 pr sek to cum or to edge. So for me a speed 1 pr sek is frustrating. I have read almost every tease in here and also tried a lot of them and normally i am far from the edge when the tease tell me to edge.
If there could be some teases that also can have different path depening on the age it could have been grate :)
I would also want to make some teases but i think i need some start help...i am not that good with computer work :)

I hope i did not confuse you more.

Per-Erik

[Stair_Car]

That's interesting. Maybe it would be useful to know also how much time it takes most people to reach the edge. If you're hard and horny, and the tease has you pretty aroused to begin with, how quickly can you come if you're allowed to stroke at your ideal rate?

[janmb]

That's interesting. Maybe it would be useful to know also how much time it takes most people to reach the edge. If you're hard and horny, and the tease has you pretty aroused to begin with, how quickly can you come if you're allowed to stroke at your ideal rate?

The problem is that this is so different from one individual to another...

For my part, I can make myself pop from flaccid/unaroused state in about 20-30 seconds I have really have to... Just like I can endure for a long time if that is what's required of me...

Or to put this another way: How fast I build arousal and/or cum is far from entirely depending on the speed with which I stroke. My mindset, my thoughts, my goals/orders matters a lot too, not just the technical amount of stimulation.

[Finlander]

Hi :)
I think it is very difficult so say exactly which speed is needed to cum. I think it depends very much on the age the person have.
Me, i am 44 and i normally need 3-4 pr sek to cum or to edge. So for me a speed 1 pr sek is frustrating. I have read almost every tease in here and also tried a lot of them and normally i am far from the edge when the tease tell me to edge.
If there could be some teases that also can have different path depening on the age it could have been grate :)
I would also want to make some teases but i think i need some start help...i am not that good with computer work :)

I hope i did not confuse you more.

Per-Erik

I have the same thing. It's frustrating when teases tell me to edge after a few pages, and I have to go watch porn for 5 minutes to reach the edge. Yeah, I could just do double speed, but it feels like I'm cheating... I'm 18, by the way.

[Stair_Car]

The problem is that this is so different from one individual to another...

I know, that's why I'm hoping to get lots of responses. Thanks for your input.

Maybe it would be more useful to find out what people's limits are. For example, sometimes a tease tells you to edge too soon when you're not ready. And sometimes a tease will think it's giving you a difficult stroke rate when it's easy, or vice versa. I'm trying to find out where those boundaries are so I can avoid them. I know they'll be different for different people, but hopefully I can get a broad idea of where those boundaries are for most people on Milovana. For example: for me, when a tease tells me to stroke at a fast rate, it seems to think it's making it harder for me not to come. But really, it's so annoying trying to stroke four (or whatever) times per second that it's not even enjoyable.