One question, Steve. Do you have any balls? Take a minute and check.

You have an opportunity to fulfill an ultimate fantasy. Make no mistake, this is a once in a lifetime opportunity. To be the source of entertainment and amusement to the woman of your dreams. Is there some risk? Of course. Perhaps ...

Hmmmm.

What is your debit card PIN?
What is your boss's email address?
What will your ex wife think when she sees this video?

Presumably, the objective is to ask questions that are as humiliating and degrading as possible, to elicit truthful and emotionally painful responses, and enjoy the ...

Fascinating topic--and obviously one that goes in a number of directions. I find the pseudo-consensual angle the most erotic. I think that is the thrill of tease and denial--it is about sex and power. Other BDSM is also fun, but it is usually about the top satisfying the bottom's kink; finding a top ...

Yes, JP, your proposal is both simple and appears to be fair. But all this concern about consent smacks of legalism, and this naturally brings out the lawyer in me. If punishment is premised on the consent of the perpetrator, then we must be sure that consent was freely given, of sound mind. If one ...

"The quality of mercy is not strain'd. It droppeth like the gentle rain from heaven." Oh, Nikki, I suppose I can understand how the more forgiving amongst us would allow an erotic deadbeat to escape justice this time. Not that we need to take things too seriously--this is all supposed to be fun ...

I have to agree with Nikki. He wasted Sophie's time, used her for his own gratification, and has failed to fulfill his part of the bargain. The women here should be cherished. He has disrespected her twice--first with an unauthorized orgasm, and second with a failure to atone. In fact, given the ...

Not that anyone asked me, but I am one of those who yells at the tv when the plot makes no sense, or when the lawyers don't object when they should.
1. Isn't this supposed to be fun? I come across plenty of stuff on milovana that weirds or grosses me out, and when it does, I put my index finger to ...

Wonderful concept, and great entries.

Can I recommend an entry for "the Humbler." A wonderfully simple and diabolical device that secures a gentleman's testicals with a hinged bar that fits behind his thighs. As the hands and feet are not bound, he can do--or be made to do--anything the lady ...

Our friend and philosopher Dan Savage comments on this subject in his latest column, as well as the related phenomenon that a man with an erection is much more adventuresome/obedient/thoughtful/kinky than one who has recently ejaculated. Whether her interest is in exploring a fantasy, achieving a ...

Hmmm. How about an O'Doul--like the non-alcoholic beer. At first glance it resembles the real thing, but you really just end up doubly frustrated because you are not getting any of the real thing, and your date is having the time of her life.

Other options: Blue-balling. Balling, but with ...

Have you checked out Elise Sutton? Some imaginative and creative forms of T&D, humiliation, etc, in the context of long term relationships.

Like oysters, the essence of the experience is not in the consumption itself but in the presentation. Just as one would not sit down for a succulent feast right after strenuous exercise, nor would one lick up the end product of a long, slow, teasing, torturing, agonizing handjob. Voluntarily, that ...