Hello everyone,
Does anyone have any advice? How do I stop him from undermining me? Maybe I have the wrong idea about sub/Dom relationships? Please help.

Hi Helikesitidont,

My big question would be (which you should answer to yourself): Do you get anything out of this? From your nick, I'd say ...

It's the same thing for me. Libido drops, quite like after a full orgasm.
But nothing I think, one should would worry about.
Embrace what, who and how you are instead.

You don't get a problem from that bike seat you mention from one day to another.
The fact that you mention it (and your other remarks) tells me that you worry about this way too much to be mentally relaxed. It's like when you have a cramped muscle, the pain makes you cramp more instead of less ...

These medical reasons almost never come over night. Unless you have had an injury or something.
You could try to test if you have any nocturnal erections, by wrapping some thin paper loop tightly around your best part during sleep and see if the paper is ripped in the morning. (I know it sounds ...

Don't freak out man! Every man goes through this sooner or later. The harder you try to get it up, the less hard it will be. Its a vicious cycle. Just give it time, and it will sort itself.

Hi Red,

Well, I'd suggest you do something that surprises him. Just break out of your regular routine a little bit where he least expects it. E.g. if you usually did let him cum, then once in a while don't. (And tell him that it is no longer up to him if he finishes...) If you're the one stroking ...