I keep noticing something and I wonder if others here have had the same experience. A lot of people I talk to say they want a long term D/s relationship. Not just a quick session, not a one off playdate, but something that’s meant to last. Yet even when both sides go into it with that “long term ...

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i'm curious whether some of those subs who run off and reappear are actually doing so out of "trust issues" or whether its a case of a horny bloke getting their nut in shame, and not someone interested in submission

trust is hard to come by and when it comes to online the distance between D/s ...

So I wanted to ask everyone here: how do you build trust quickly with someone new online?

I think there are a lot of different factors that finally come together as trust in the end.
As I have decent experience in being an online dom and an online sub, I think the most important thing for both ...

Lately, I’ve noticed a few subs leave the spaces they were in, only to come back later. Turns out they had followed Doms they thought they could trust, but realized the connection wasn’t as solid as they hoped.

So I wanted to ask everyone here: how do you build trust quickly with someone new ...

Enjoyed reading it.

You should drop it in the #kink-writing channel of my task Discord group, I bet people there would love to read it.
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Lovely story! You should totally drop it in the #kink-writing channel of my task Discord group, people there would love to read it.
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Flip a coin. Heads for Shakira, tails for your Eastern European goddess. Either way, you’re eating it, aren’t you?

Top it with whipped cream and serve to anyone brave enough to watch you drink it.

To answer your question is tough. Because I do enjoy keeping the 2 lives separate. So in reality, keeping it a secret and separated is the way for me!

Just like how we have different friend / social groups for our various interests, i dont really want them to mix with one another too much. Like ...

Happy Baby or Yoganidrasana.
Immobile, glutes and intimates exposed and accessible.
Uncomfortable but not painful yet...but how long will I be in this pose, uncomfortableness level rising, slowly entering the world of pain.


Nice positions! How do you find your mindset shifts as the ...

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I know, I know. This probably isn’t the usual kind of task people look for here. No bondage, no edging, no humiliation. But maybe there’s a nerdy sub out ...

The hog tie. Makes them do the work, having to arch and bend upwards to make eye contact.


Such a vivid image. Do you find that being tied up makes their gaze more focused and lasting?


Quite.
Especially when telling them how to be released.
But, I realize I may be posting this in the ...

nils99 wrote: Mon Aug 04, 2025 9:56 pm For me this would definitely be amazon position...

Interesting choice! What is it about this position that makes you feel the most submissive?

Happy Baby or Yoganidrasana.
Immobile, glutes and intimates exposed and accessible.
Uncomfortable but not painful yet...but how long will I be in this pose, uncomfortableness level rising, slowly entering the world of pain.


Nice positions! How do you find your mindset shifts as the discomfort ...