Multiple Edges vs. Edge Holds

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Multiple Edges vs. Edge Holds

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Wondering if anyone else has this “problem”. A lot of teases and games here on Milovana call for multiple edges, often with relatively little rest (say, 10-30 seconds) between them, but after a while, I find that I start hitting the edge within a few seconds after I start stroking again, and sometimes, I never even really come down off the edge at all. As a result, the multi-edge tease kind of turns into one long edge hold, often to the point where I can barely stroke at all without going over and have to resort to ballooning, tapping or one-finger frenulum stimulation to keep playing.

Any suggestions for how to remedy this? Obviously, I could just rest longer between edges, but a lot of teases use timers that don’t allow for that, and even when it’s an option, I feel like I’m kind of missing out on the “multiple quick edges” experience that’s intended. It’s not a stamina problem, exactly, as it actually takes me a while to build up to the first few edges, and I can hold the edge almost indefinitely if I’m careful. It’s just that I seem to hit a point of hyper stimulation that prevents me from repeatedly bouncing on and off the edge in quick succession.
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Re: Multiple Edges vs. Edge Holds

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I've been having that problem all day. Especially the teases that have you do it 3 or 4 times in a row. Another thing I wish could change are the ones that abruptly end due to !wrong wrong choice but move so slow I dont even want to restart them
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Re: Multiple Edges vs. Edge Holds

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I sometimes give myself the rule that I have to do kegels between edges. I experiment with number of clenches of the pelvic muskle. Is there any Tease that asks how full your balls are or let's say how arrousable your are today?

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Re: Multiple Edges vs. Edge Holds

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SilverDuck wrote: Sat Mar 05, 2022 6:44 pm Wondering if anyone else has this “problem”. A lot of teases and games here on Milovana call for multiple edges, often with relatively little rest (say, 10-30 seconds) between them, but after a while, I find that I start hitting the edge within a few seconds after I start stroking again, and sometimes, I never even really come down off the edge at all. As a result, the multi-edge tease kind of turns into one long edge hold, often to the point where I can barely stroke at all without going over and have to resort to ballooning, tapping or one-finger frenulum stimulation to keep playing.
Not sure this is something that requires a remedy. On the contrary, having the exact struggle you are experiencing is often exactly the author's intention.
Yes, I most certainly CAN do it again!
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