Anyone on or were on Fetlife ?

[cockheroaddict]

Is anyone on Fetlife ? (You don't need to state your user name there).

How has it been for you and has it been a positive experience so far ?

If you have left that site and deleted your account why did you leave ? How long were you there ?

I was on there and decided that it was too, I don't know, it just seemed like outsiders were not really that welcome, and that I was the new kid in school or something.

I guess you could say it felt, well, maybe cliquish. I joined quite a few of the groups and engaged other users in conversation, or at least tried to, but besides it being a lot slower than I anticipated it just was, well, not doing it for me.

[uberbear01]

It never felt cliquish to me, I thought they did a good job in trying to make people welcome actually. I just felt it was really difficult to make an impression. But that's the same anywhere online I think.

[sissy susan]

i feel that way in every social interaction ever.
i joined recently, and have messaged a few cool people, but not much more.
good news is only need to find one