Official "I'm Looking For A Domme, Dom or sub" Thread

[Sub-Routine]

I am looking for someone in the portland area to hold keys for and play with on occasion. I am 28, male, poly, experienced with kink, and recently have been getting comfortable with being bisexual. My biggest kinks are chastity, teasing and orgasm denial, typically on the bottom side, but lately I have been wanting to inflict what I have experienced and what I fantasize about. In short, I want to make someones cock my toy. I want to tease it, deny it, ruin its orgasms, and generally make its wearer as frustrated as humanly possible. This would probably happen over the course of negotiated play sessions in relatively secluded locations (if you can host, great, otherwise we can scope out a play party or I can occasionally provide a space.
I want you to provide - your own chastity device with a key, a personable appearance and demeanor (some attraction would be nice), forthright communication as to your wants and needs and the willpower to abide by my decisions. If you have enough of the last the first is not strictly necessary, but I'd want a good reason why you're into this and don't have a working device.

This will be my first experience with topping men. I do not expect this to be an otherwise sexual or romantic relationship (at least not by default), nor am I looking to be the dommeliest dom outside of holding a key. Some protocol and D/s rules can be established. I can also do some other forms of play (pain and impact, rope bondage). I will not use anything other than my hands without a clean test sheet in front of me. You should be around Portland or travel through there very often. We can and should start small and build up.

PM me with your details and a coffee shop or other place you'd like to meet and negotiate at. A picture or Fetlife profile would also be nice.

[Jslave211]

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[blueballs88]

Male Dom/switch looking to tease, and train a young (under 30) male sub online.

Interests include edging, orgasm denial, public humiliation, and bdsm tasks.

Message me for additional details.

[jt9889]

Hi all,

I'm a male looking for a domme for online only stuff. I'm not looking for a 24/7 relationship of any kind, far from it - rather, I'm looking for something very casual with someone who is willing to help me explore new things and help me get a better understanding of what I do and don't like. If things go well enough then maybe we could move onto something more serious, but it would still be online only probably.

A little about myself: 22 years old, finished my University degree in Philosophy/Psychology about 6 months ago. My hobbies include reading (mostly fiction), playing guitar, video games, tabletop games, and going to the gym. I'm currently unemployed so I have plenty of spare time to talk.

As far as my BDSM likes and limits are concerned, the list is minimal at the moment but I'm open to trying new things to help me learn what I do and don't like. My likes include orgasm control, medium pain (about a 5-6 out of 10), humiliation and feet (though I'm not sure how relevant a foot fetish is going to be in this context). My limits include cutting/blood play, anal play, feces/urine play, breath play, bondage and hard pain.

If anyone is at all interested, please feel free to send me a PM and we can organise things from there. I would prefer keeping communications to PM's, but Skype is also fine. I'm also fine with sending pictures, so long as they do not reveal my identity.

[Walter.Ross69]

Hey there,

I already wrote on this topic but did not know enough about myself to have raised the claims I did.

I am a 23 year old male student in London and I'm looking for a relation with a dominant woman (any age). It would not have to be a 24/7 relation but I am looking for a more lasting relation if we find to like us..:) There is just nothing in the world that gets me more going than a woman that knows exactly what she wants and is ready to express that through me.
I am not going to say that I am intellectual or educated since it would show exactly the opposite but I do enjoy books and I have a love for physics and science generally.

I got into BDSM through Tease and Denial, Chastity, Orgasm Control and CBT. Fairly new to the scene so open to find my true limits :)

About me: blond hair, green eyes, 1,77cm, thin/athletic body.
I would be very happy to send pictures if you are interested.

I am a naturally submissive person towards women but can 'act' good enough to pass through as exactly the opposite.... and frankly do enjoy doing so every now and then.
Looking forward on meeting you :)

[mindblow]

I am a male sub (mid-twenties) looking for online-relationships/play.

We could have a conversation understanding each other's intentions or desires before going forth. Looking for someone who would enjoy fetish through tease & denial and would'nt mind in trying something new.

My limits are: no blood, urine or scat.....rest is fine for me

Anyone interested, please message me or via Yahoo at rightplace7701

[PedroZorro]

I am a Dom looking for a sub.

[LFTW]

Hello. I'm relatively new here and I found out recently that I liked to be dominated a little.
By that I mean I like it when it's not painful and it stay in privacy.

But still, let's go!

Who I am?
I'm a 19 years old frenchy who happened to be bi and who seriously lack of self confidence: I love when others peoples make choices for me. I'm brown haired and 182cm, 70kg and always shaved totally (except hairs). I'm single, living in an appartment except during vacations and week end. I had one girlfriend and one sex friend (they both leaved me), and I had sex once with a boy.

What I want?
A mistress who is serious and who is trustworthy. I don't want her to leave me two weeks before we first talked and if she ask me to send her pictures or things like that, I don't want them to appear on any website: it's private and I want it to stay private.

I would like the relationship to stay as long as possible.
I don't want total slavery, as I won't accept to be ashamed in public, but in privacy I'll do everything I can to please her. So I guess we can call that "private slavery"...
Also I would like a mistress that reward me if I'm a good slave. I don't find any interessed to do something for absolutely nothing in return. I don't mean a big reward, but just something like some words to tell me if I did good...

What I like?
I like playing in general (bonus points for challenge), feeling secured and having people to be confident in. I'm also a lot in fapping games, sex toys and things like that. But I'm not really into porn... I like to be blackmailed also (I feel ashamed for saying that...)...

What I have?
A dildo, a sort of fleshlight, and everything you could find in a appartment... I think of buying a anal plug also...

What I refuse?
Scat, painful things, public shame, and things who are expensive (I will not buy a 1000$ toy for one use). Also grammar nazi: I'm french and I have some difficulties with english . I would accept everything else globally.

I know I ask a lot, but most of this is just because I'm insecure with myself..

[Torpidity]

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[Sub or dom]

Looking for a mistress or master to serve online. Please message me for further info

[ant155]

I am looking for a mistress to serve. I AMA 21yr old M with 5inch cock very willing and submissive

[dutchpeter]

21 male bi sub (Dutch)

Interests: BDSM, CBT, TnDn and Bondage

Limits: Blood, Scat and Anything permanent

Toys: Normal sized vibrator, Rope, Clothespegs Riding crop, and Common household items

contact: Skype

[rob123]

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[Teased&DeniedSlave]

Male straight sub 18, looking for a mistress for online tease and denial, just to give me tasks/teases to complete

Limits: no blood, scat, piss, extreme pain, a little CBT is alright but not too much, public (we can go into more detail later)

If you are interested send me a PM

[ILLbeYOUEslave]

Looking for a MISTRESS.
18 Male.
Limits: family, public, permanent, extreme pain.