How I told my girlfriend about my T&D fetish

[curiousexperiments]

Wow Chewit, This is an awesome life you are leading. I have to praise your patience for holding on to the edge. I hope that I can one day be as strong as you and as love my girl like you do.

Please don't ever stop adding to this thread. I found this thread at midnight last night, I sat up until 3 reading and of course wasted my one week's denial.

Keep up the good job dude!
I'll pray for your strength and patience!

[chewit]

Thanks guys, I'm glad my suffering is providing you pleasure haha.....only kidding, I'm having a great time in a very masochistic kind of way.

So, when I posted last time I was waiting for my phonecall.....unfortunately due to the flatmates coming home I never got to listen, but my gf did message me to tell me she had the opportunity to play later in the night and made herself cum 3 times....she even went into detail about each orgasm she had and how she came......I had to laugh when she said she finished herself off as the vibrator batteries died on the 3rd one..

Last night was no different, we spent an hour on the phone and as usual my gf was having lots of fun talking dirty to me, telling me all the things she is going to do to me when she comes over. On top of that she enforces the no touching rule and laughs when I show my desperation to cum, especially when I tell her how hard she's making me. I really feel lucky to have such a great gf. Some of the things she comes out with amaze me.

Gf: Now be honest, have you touched yourself or done anything?

Me: No

Gf: Anything at all?

Me: I haven't even touched a nipple for pleasure.

She laughed

Gf: Very good. It's not long until I'm over now, 4 more days....I hope you're gonna make the most of cumming while I'm there.....even if you don't feel like it after you've cum a couple of times.

I think I knew where this was going but asked to be sure.

Me: Are you telling me that when you leave I go back to not being able to do anything for another month?

Gf: Of course, so make the most of your pleasure while I'm there.

I kinda laughed as that familiar wave of excitement and desperation washed over me.

Me: It looks like I'll be in the gym a lot in June then?

She laughed.

Gf: I'm sure you will.

Before we ended the call she told me she would be playing with her vibrator again while watching porn and that she'd msn me when she started, just to give me something to think about......it drove me crazy to think of her pleasuring herself and just made me more desperate.

It's now day 20, the longest I've ever gone, this time there's absolutely no chance of cumming and I'm seriously limited to any kind of physical pleasure.....which has been tough, but as there's been so much 'talk' the phycological side of things has been amazing.

Thinking about it I'm sure outside this community people would think I'm certifiable lol......I get denied pleasure and suffer while my gf has a LOT of fun and orgasms, and in payment I go to the gym and work like crazy to give my gf the present of having a boyfriend with a 'swimmers body' (as she put it).

[camel]

Nice, Chewit!

Enjoying your posts a lot!

It's too bad she can't deny herself for a few days before she comes up, but I'm sure you two will have a really hot reunion anyway.

[ThomasKu]

Even I can't wait for her to visit you.

[pioneer911]

Hey,
Good job winning the FTOTM award. I've always enjoyed your teases — especially the ones with Amy. Can't wait to hear more from you.

[chewit]

Hey guys,

It's been a while since I last updated this thread!

So, between my gf and myself we kinda had a break from T&D but it's been back with a vengance lately....although slightly different than before with 3 changes. The first change is we no longer use the chastity belt. The rules are the same as before, I'm never to give myself an orgasm....that's solely at my gf's decision and it's definitely much harder (excuse the pun) not being locked away. The second change is the amount of ball slaps I'm getting. My gf really seems to have developed a taste for this, judging by how much it makes her laugh. And the third and most difficult change is that I am teased much more with sex....as in as soon as my gf cums we stop, she laughs, kisses me and I lay there very frustrated until I manage to fall asleep.

Anyway, I thought I'd run through my experience of the last month or so. Sept 26th the teasing began again after my last orgasm....although there was no warning that we'd started playing again. I was teased over the course of 21 days with no release finally cumming on the 17th Oct. To my surprise it was only eight days until I was allowed to cum again on the 25th. I had thoroughly enjoyed the torment and kinda thought that was it again for a while....it appears that I am wrong.

On the 26th we were lying in bed talking and the subject turned to sex..

Me: It was so good to get to cum last night. (Hint hint, yes it was a lame attempt but worth a shot)

She smiled.

Gf: I'm glad you liked it, I guess having that orgasm reminded you how good they are and I'm sure you'd like another one.

I smiled.

She pulled me close to her, moved her hand down and started getting me hard. I couldn't believe my luck.....at this point I was in no way interested in being denied and definitely wanted to cum again. We were having sex in no time after my gf came, the dreaded work came as well..

Gf: Stop.

I thought maybe it was a joke....you'd think I would have learnt by now....

I didn't so much speak, I think the look on my face more than conveyed my pain and desperation...

Gf: I hope you didn't misunderstand and think you're going to be cumming tonight.....

She laughed and pulled away from me.

Gf: When was it that you came last.....oh that's right, yesterday.....

Then she gave me a single look that told me that it's not gonna happen again for a while.

She smiled, rolled over, turned the light out and went to sleep.

The next day I was still in a little shock. We were sat on the sofa and I explained that I was surprised from the night before.

Gf: Oh poor thing, are you frustrated.....do you need to cum?

Again there was no need for words, my expression must have conveyed enough. She ran her hands down between my legs, I was already hard. Then she began to slap my cock, harder and harder......this doesn't worry me too much as it hurts but it's not at all unbearable....I was kinda enjoying it as she repeated over and over...

Gf: No cumming for you...no cumming for you....

Then without warning the last hard slap wasn't on my cock but straight to my balls....and let me tell you it was hard enough that they were still aching a few minutes later......of course my gf found it highly amusing....and since then has been slapping them a lot more! Sometimes it one or two hard slaps, and sometimes it a lot of continuous lighter ones....which after about 20 feel pretty painful......it gets to the point where I actually pull away as it's too much. Then I get a look, no words, and the look tells me to move my hands out of the way....then she continues slapping them until she's satisfied.

So, today's the 30th and I haven't been given any release or even teasing.....apart from ball slaps and verbal teasing whenever I so much as mention that I'm desperate for release. This morning we were in bed......we woke up and were hugging..

I didn't even need to say anything, I'm sure you guys know that feeling when you've been denied for a while and you wake up hard every morning.

Gf: And what's this?

She reached down and grabbed my hard cock....and laughed.

I had nothing to lose....

Me: I'm really really desperate....please?

She grabbed my face with one hand.

Gf: We only have sex when I want it...

She kissed me and smiled......oh dear I thought....I could see where this was going..

But then she reached down and started stroking me....in no time I was edging, she sensed this and slowed down, laughing to herself. As the edge faded away she speeded up and got me there again.....and again slowed down.....then out of nowhere she simply stopped.

Gf: Go and shower.

I did, and when I came back into the bedroom I made sure I was still naked, clinging for any hope of more 'fun'

My wish was granted.......she took one look at me, and smiled......and then got onto her knees, grabbed my cock and began to give me a blowjob......I was hard in no time and thought to myself that this was going to lead somewhere.....why I thought that is anyone's guess.....

She stopped. And not surprisingly slapped my balls.

Gf: Get dressed.

And that was my morning. As I write this, I'm still desperate and beginning to think that this 'non chastity belt' form of denial could actually become a much more permanent arrangement.....

[edgingaddict]

Thanks a lot for sharing. You are very lucky to find such a girlfriend. Probably not lucky right now because you want to cum

Finding a girl, that shares you interests is very hard. I wasn't lucky so far. Enjoy your denial time.