Hi ya Frodo *Smile*
I wrote:
I had wanted to write something, before you wrote this, but the weekends are always so hard for me to write anything. I am writing this in stages.
You wrote:
Hey, please don't apologize for having a life; never apologize for spending time with the people you love. Your crazy friend froodly (by any name) wants to be low-maintenance, is nothing if not patient, and not only respects, but admires your boundaries. So take care of your loved ones and be proud of it, ok?
*grinning, and my eyes twinkle at you* Now where in there did I apologize??? *giggling*
You are absolutely right that those in the outside world, Master, and Banquo must come before others. I really appreciate you understanding that. *bright smile*
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You wrote:
*squrims with longing at the thought of "painful cherishing"* I'm really sorry you had such a bad experience around bruising. I wish I'd known, so I could have taken care of you better. Now I do know.
I think perhaps you overestimate me. I have, practically speaking, no play experience other than fantasy and the self-inflicted. Bruisings from involuntary abuse are another thing altogether, about which more elsewhere.
Of course. You deserve to be cared for and protected. Everybody deserves that.
Yes, absolutely. I'm glad you told me of your sore spot; I'll do my very best to be protective of you in that way. For no particularly obvious reason, nobody ever talks about dommes needing their own safewords, but of course you do. If you are ever less than happy, please say so immediately; I promise to respond with sympathy, comfort, and respect.
I had assumed that you had done some playing in the outside world, yes. So, when you do self play, do you bruise a lot?
I'm glad I mentioned it too. Your first reaction to my words had made me I wish I hadn't said anything, but now I am really glad that I did. Honesty is always the best way to approach anything. *Smile*
And I agree, safe words are not only for the submissive but for the Dominant too. *smile*
I wrote:
It's time for you to take a breath and let the sorrow that you have been feeling float away with your exhale......and yes....I am ordering that of you. *warm smile*
You wrote:
Thank you. It may take longer than a breath, but thank you for telling me how to take better care of you.
*my eyebrow raises....and I look directly at you* It better not take longer.....I did order something of you, and I EXPECT you to do it! *I pause for a moment....and then slowly a smile spreads over my lips, and it's as if my whole face is smiling*
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You wrote:
"Heart-felt thanks, Beautiful Seashell. I am yours to command."
*brightly smiles* Well thank you!!!!