Little Miss Jay wrote:
All orgasms ruined or not always count as a point unless I say otherwise... (Like the free ruined orgasms I gave away yesterday)
Little Miss Jay x
Not to be cheeky Miss but I think the main point of confusion was over what the definition of an orgasm is. Is it counted by you as an orgasm any time cum leaves the cock no matter the amount, method or pleasure? Or is it possible to milk some cum out of your cock without it counting as a point by using SoD's squeeze method or my own relax method (or maybe even a 3rd method by prostate massage which I hear is also possible)?
On a sidenote this is almost like the olympics, soon we'll need lists of banned substances too along with the rule clarifications.
Btw. Thank you SoD for your explanation. I understand it now and I think with that information and maybe a little practice I will probably be able to pull it off and get me one of those one-drop 'squeezegasms' or whatever you want to call them.

Although it may be a little too risky for me to attempt it until after the 21st...
If you want to attempt a 'flowgasm' or whatever they should be called the key is to stroke very very slowly as you go over the edge and then relax your entire body like you're trying to go limp (specifically your PC muscle but if you don't have very precise control over that just the whole body will do it). It goes against every natural impulse to relax your PC muscle as you cum but it is possible if you push yourself very lightly over the edge so the orgasm doesn't get too strong and overpowers you. You should then get a flow of cum running down the sides of your cock with no spurts and no orgasmic feeling, you should remain hard and ready for action immediately afterwards as well in my experience. It's frustrating but fun to try - besides with no refractory period you can always give yourself a proper orgasm right away afterwards to wash away the frustration...