Who wants to play?

[dix]

Mine makes me behave worse lol.

Maybe it's because Miss Jay's in charge of the key...

Nope I think it would still make me go nuts I'd just be in more trouble.

dix.

[Dan]

Nope I think it would still make me go nuts I'd just be in more trouble.

Thing is though, if you don't behave while you're locked up, you won't get the key back. So if you want to be unlocked, be good!
I like to think I'm pretty well behaved generally, being locked up just adds a mountain of frustration on top of everything!

[neo36]

Thing is though, if you don't behave while you;re locked up, you won't get the key back. So if you want to be unlocked, be good!
I like to think I'm pretty well behaved generally, being locked up just adds a mountain of frustration on top of everything!

Exactly!!!!!

[dix]

Nope I think it would still make me go nuts I'd just be in more trouble.

Thing is though, if you don't behave while you're locked up, you won't get the key back. So if you want to be unlocked, be good!
I like to think I'm pretty well behaved generally, being locked up just adds a mountain of frustration on top of everything!

That's true, but due to the highly unlikley even of me getting a key holder...

But since you told me how to fit it correctly I can't just get out of it any more.

dix.

[Dan]

fair enough buddy!
You could always send Miss Jay your key, I'm sure she wouldn't mind looking after it!
Someone needs to invent a combination lock you set over the internet, that'd be handy for keyholders everywhere!

And yeh, the fit makes a huge difference. One thing I'd never done was file the pins down, just did them yesterday and that's a lot comfier too

[dix]

fair enough buddy!
You could always send Miss Jay your key, I'm sure she wouldn't mind looking after it!
Someone needs to invent a combination lock you set over the internet, that'd be handy for keyholders everywhere!

And yeh, the fit makes a huge difference. One thing I'd never done was file the pins down, just did them yesterday and that's a lot comfier too

The white pins that poke out the back?

dix.

[Dan]

yep!

[dix]

yep!

They do piss me off. I might modifiy it a little bit.

dix.

Edit: As for sending Miss Jay a key... I'd have to get a pair of bolt croppers She'd never let me out again.

[MistressD]

******This part is not to be read by any Mistress on this thread******

As for not feeling as submissive after cumming, well it's normal, when I studied psychology I read that this period is called "refractory period" (sorry I translated the term literally from french.) and it is almost nonexistent for women.

For men it's a different story, time of this period varies for each individual. some factors influencing the duration can be age, physical/health condition, frequency of ejaculation (geez did I just say that!!!!!) and intensity of the orgasm and "hornyness".

So the older then man, the more frequent ejaculations and orgasms and the less fit one will tend to make those refractory period be longer. I t can last from a few minutes to an entire day but it is hard to predict the duration.

OK I guess I've rambled enough....... ladies you are now forgetting this pos.... you never read it ok?

With that said... have a great day everyone

For some lucky women (like me!) there's almost a reverse refractory period - usually when I have an orgasm I'm even hornier afterwards. That's pretty much how I can have 20 or more orgasms in a week - they tend to be in groups of 2 or 3 during a session.

As far as the male recovery time, it also just varies greatly from person to person. I've mentioned before that my 45 year old husband is like a 16 year old - he stays nice and hard after he cums and can usually cum a second time pretty shortly after the first before he starts to be more interested in things like watching TV or eating or sleeping... Of course, I like to think that I have something to do with that !

Neo - did we talk about you studying psychology before? I assume you know that's what I do as a profession... and what Birdman does as sort of a hobby (he doesn't practice professionally anymore but does a lot of pro bono work).

Mistress D

[MistressD]

yep!

They do piss me off. I might modifiy it a little bit.

dix.

Edit: As for sending Miss Jay a key... I'd have to get a pair of bolt croppers She'd never let me out again.

You both have curves, right? There was somethign that Birdman did to the pins when he first got it because they bothered him - I'm guesing it's what Dan was talking about.

At first I thought Dan meant he was filing the POI into sharper points. That didn't seem like it would be more comfortable !

[dix]

As far as the male recovery time, it also just varies greatly from person to person. I've mentioned before that my 45 year old husband is like a 16 year old - he stays nice and hard after he cums and can usually cum a second time pretty shortly after the first before he starts to be more interested in things like watching TV or eating or sleeping... Of course, I like to think that I have something to do with that !

I can do 2 maybe 3, but I lose interest in the orgasms after the first or second and that's when I switch back to being dominant.

dix.

[Dan]

They do piss me off. I might modifiy it a little bit.

You both have curves, right? There was somethign that Birdman did to the pins when he first got it because they bothered him - I'm guesing it's what Dan was talking about.

Yep! It's pretty straight forward, I cut them with pliers and then filed them down so they're rounded and smooth again. I used a proper file but apparently you can get away with an emery board!

[Dan]

At first I thought Dan meant he was filing the POI into sharper points. That didn't seem like it would be more comfortable !

I seriously don't understand how you can deny the 'D' is for 'devious' when you come up with ideas like this!

[Dan]

Edit: As for sending Miss Jay a key... I'd have to get a pair of bolt croppers She'd never let me out again.

Can feel that way sometimes, but Miss Jay's pretty fair

[Dan]

As far as the male recovery time, it also just varies greatly from person to person. I've mentioned before that my 45 year old husband is like a 16 year old - he stays nice and hard after he cums and can usually cum a second time pretty shortly after the first before he starts to be more interested in things like watching TV or eating or sleeping... Of course, I like to think that I have something to do with that !

I can do 2 maybe 3, but I lose interest in the orgasms after the first or second and that's when I switch back to being dominant.

dix.

Miss Jay sometimes edges me a couple of times pretty soon after letting me cum, and that works quite well with me to get me back to where I was before the orgasm!