This where I am at, too :DStuntman wrote:.
Now let me clarify, while I may not be body builder quality. I am above average body wise (I can not be the judge of how my face looks) I workout probably 4-5 days a week, rock climb 3-6 hours a week, parkour, gymnastics all that stuff. So while I did go through a period where I felt I was being shallow for wanting a "hot chick" I now i guess justify it with that, I put a lot of work into getting where I am now, torn muscles, tendons all that stuff. So dont I "deserve" a girl that does the same? Shouldn't I date a girl who puts just as much effort into her body as I do mine?
I almost never see women put anywhere near the kind of effort men put into their bodies.

