for your info more and more people are being more carful when meeting people in person and online. i know of several people that have had background checks done on each other to be safe. you don't always know who your going to run into or if they are real. better safe then sorry.
i am sorry you feel that way but i have to inform you your wrong, at least in our domme's relationship. me and her are both aware of each others trust issues and work together. she knows i have trouble trusting people from past experiences and vise versa. she's ok with it and understands. as far as the Facebook thing goes we talked about that to and she' understands my thoughts and feelings and doesn't mind me looking her up. she explained all the things that i was questioning to me and also explained the reason we havnt talked is she was working 24 hours a day at work. she tried texting me but they never went through because her phone broke.
i never questioned that ldr's do not work....
and as far as what you said about trust... i am not perfect and neither is she. we have both had bad exeriences and like anyone else when that happens it gets hard to trust anyone. you probably have not had this happen to you and im glad you havnt because it sucks. my mistress is probably the closest thing to someone in my life that i can trust and depend on to be there when i need someone.... unless something happens with communication and she cant she will be there.
Yes, I am aware that people get hurt when meeting someone online.
If I missed anywhere where you said, in response to someone, that you had discussed the facebook thing, or that you had talked it over with her, before or after writing the thread....I apologize.
I do think it's great that you talked....
I have been hurt, more times then I chose to remember......
And lastly....I'm sorry for posting. I should have left it alone.