yesFemale ruined possible?
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AngelAnna837
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Re: Female ruined possible?
I edge myself routinely when I play with myself (and with my guy, too) because getting close and then backing away makes the final orgasm that much stronger and I'm more likely to be satisfied afterwards (I'd rather have 1-2 strong ones than 3-4 weak ones that make me feel like I could have more yet I'm spent). I don't really believe in the whole denial thing, for either sex, but I did try to interrupt my own orgasms a couple times out of curiosity. I suppose you could say it was ruined in the sense it wasn't very fun, but I'm not sure how to make a comparison to what happens to a guy. Let's just say I didn't find it particularly compelling since it was just a very weak orgasm. If it were a stronger orgasm I would probably be more frustrated, but I never felt like wasting one of those.
However...one time I had a really weird orgasm that fizzled out, on accident. I think this may be more what it's like for a guy, but I'm not sure. It was a couple years ago. I went through the day without eating. No breakfast, no lunch. Don't get me wrong, I'm not the type of person who starves herself or anything like that. I just had so much to do and I wasn't really hungry at lunch time so I skipped it. But on the way home I was starving. You know that feeling, when it's like you're completely hollow and you're shaking a little? But at the same time I was pretty damned horny too, which is a pretty strange state to be in. So when I got home I was kinda wandering around the house for a little bit wondering if I should make something to eat or just go upstairs and get my fingers wet.
Well, you can guess which one won out.
No one was around to bother me or anything so I was pretty into it. I was on my back on my bed. It was feeling good but there was a lot of tension in my stomach. It felt low too, like just right above my bush actually. Like two primal urges fighting or something. Once I finally went over the edge it was incredible...for about two seconds. You know how those waves of ecstasy kinda flow out from between your legs and then go up and around your entire body? Well, once those waves hit my belly all the tension was released and my stomach growled like it's never growled before. It's like all my orgasmic energy was instantly transferred to my stomach, sapping its strength and killing my sexual mojo. I was mashing my clit and humping into the air and I didn't really feel much of anything except my muscles flexing all up and down my abdomen and pins and needles up and down my spine and in my toes (which still curled, in fact my toes were the only part that felt good really). It was a bizarre sensation unlike any other. The muscles did their thing but I felt little or no carnal pleasure. I felt satisfied in the sense I wasn't horny anymore but my orgasm disappeared. I wasn't physically frustrated, but I was extremely confused and somewhat alarmed. Just a really weird thing.
That's the only time I could ever almost relate to a guy having a ruined orgasm, except they're still horny afterward so not really (I think). But I see it. The only other really weird orgasm I had was when I had a high fever and was sicker than a dog, but it had the opposite effect and intensified the feelings.
However...one time I had a really weird orgasm that fizzled out, on accident. I think this may be more what it's like for a guy, but I'm not sure. It was a couple years ago. I went through the day without eating. No breakfast, no lunch. Don't get me wrong, I'm not the type of person who starves herself or anything like that. I just had so much to do and I wasn't really hungry at lunch time so I skipped it. But on the way home I was starving. You know that feeling, when it's like you're completely hollow and you're shaking a little? But at the same time I was pretty damned horny too, which is a pretty strange state to be in. So when I got home I was kinda wandering around the house for a little bit wondering if I should make something to eat or just go upstairs and get my fingers wet.
Well, you can guess which one won out.
No one was around to bother me or anything so I was pretty into it. I was on my back on my bed. It was feeling good but there was a lot of tension in my stomach. It felt low too, like just right above my bush actually. Like two primal urges fighting or something. Once I finally went over the edge it was incredible...for about two seconds. You know how those waves of ecstasy kinda flow out from between your legs and then go up and around your entire body? Well, once those waves hit my belly all the tension was released and my stomach growled like it's never growled before. It's like all my orgasmic energy was instantly transferred to my stomach, sapping its strength and killing my sexual mojo. I was mashing my clit and humping into the air and I didn't really feel much of anything except my muscles flexing all up and down my abdomen and pins and needles up and down my spine and in my toes (which still curled, in fact my toes were the only part that felt good really). It was a bizarre sensation unlike any other. The muscles did their thing but I felt little or no carnal pleasure. I felt satisfied in the sense I wasn't horny anymore but my orgasm disappeared. I wasn't physically frustrated, but I was extremely confused and somewhat alarmed. Just a really weird thing.
That's the only time I could ever almost relate to a guy having a ruined orgasm, except they're still horny afterward so not really (I think). But I see it. The only other really weird orgasm I had was when I had a high fever and was sicker than a dog, but it had the opposite effect and intensified the feelings.