prostate milking

[Alison]

Well I disagree. If you do it right you can milk yourself in a few minutes max. I milked myself in under 2mins a few days ago. It doesnt take that long.

And tbh I wouldnt use a needle - thats insane, the risk of getting serious injuries are to big. Just use a normal sized dildo or a size you are comfort with and do it the way I described. Try it out if it takes longer the first time it doesnt matter, but at least you managed to find your prostate and you found the right spot to stimulate. The next time you know what to do and how to do it and after some time you will find it pretty easy to milk yourself.

Its really only about finding the right spot thats all.

It takes beginners time to learn to do this. Anyone who things they can just start pressing on their prostate and it's magically going to cause them to be milked is going to be disappointed.

An old fashioned knitting needle (ball end), covered in a condom will not injure you if you use lube and slide it in ball first. If you slide it in pointy in first- you will hurt yourself. There is a Darwin reference here- but I won't make it.

The problem with a dildo is that many people are not flexible enough to use it to hit their prostate. Particularly men over 40. It helps to have an option that you can do, even with limited mobility.

But you are completely correct when you say it is all about hitting that spot.

Alison

[RoniDev]

It takes beginners time to learn to do this. Anyone who things they can just start pressing on their prostate and it's magically going to cause them to be milked is going to be disappointed.

An old fashioned knitting needle (ball end), covered in a condom will not injure you if you use lube and slide it in ball first. If you slide it in pointy in first- you will hurt yourself. There is a Darwin reference here- but I won't make it.

The problem with a dildo is that many people are not flexible enough to use it to hit their prostate. Particularly men over 40. It helps to have an option that you can do, even with limited mobility.

But you are completely correct when you say it is all about hitting that spot.

Alison

I agree and it takes some time to find the right spot and get used to it. It also took me over 30mins the first time and I gave up frustrated cause it didnt really work. But I tried it again and again. Its like learning to swim. Its very hard in the beginning but afterwards you do it without thinking anymore.

All I'm saying is that people shouldnt give up. I dont think that an beginner is able to milk himself in a few minutes, if he can milk himself at all the first time. But as soon as you found the right spot the first time you should know how and where to massage yourself and the next time you milk yourself it shouldnt take that long anymore. Its really like swimming. Hard to learn but easy to do afterwards.

I still wouldnt really use a knitting needle, imo the risk is to big. You could always buy a very slim dildo for such games. I think there are even special anal-play dildos available which are only as thick as a human finger.

The prostate is to sensitive and I know that ppl will use more force after they found the right spot to stimulate themself, cause its a really nice feeling and the risk to injure yourself is imo to big with a needle. Use a finger-sized dildo and there also curved dildos available.

[RoniDev]

Anyone else find it makes them pee sometimes when they try to do some prostate massage? Sometimes i cum, sometimes i pee. I think its cuz i push too hard or hit the wrong spot? I dunno

No you do it absolutly right! The need to pee basicly happens when you "over stimulate" your prostate. That can be also very nice and humiliating, when you keep doing that, you can really wet yourself that way. Try it a bit more slower, with less force. Also try to not jerk off for a week and then stimulate your prostate like you do already. I take the bet that you will get some nice load after a few minutes.

[RoniDev]

Some really good dildos for prostate milking are those from tantus. I hope its allowed to post a link if not then please edit and remove the link, but some good ones you can buy here (http://www.nawtythings.com/tantus1.html)