Need some quick help/advice

[Marke]

Everything in moderation.

Drugs, gambling and sex do seem to cause a lot of trouble. Often made worse by attempts to control them.

There are plenty of web sites that help with addiction issue sand free conselling services (certainly in Oz) where you can ring up and talk to people about your problems. Some problems might be hard to explain though ...

One guy I heard of had a problem cause he and his wife had sex six or more times a day. No one would take his problem seriously (actually I stole that from the BBC program Help!).

[addictlion]

Just want to say thanks for all the input/criticism/insight. I wanted input from this community because it was the only one I knew of where people could relate to the experiences and emotions. It's clear that I need to suck it up and stay off the internet for a while. As much as I didn't want to admit it I have to seek professional help because I can't figure out a way to stop the behavior.

So thank you to everyone who offered their opinion/advice (even the jokes). I would like to say that I really don't think the fetish behavior is wrong in general. My fetish behavior is/was wrong because I allowed myself to do things I shouldn't do, all for the sake of a an exciting sexual experience. It is also wrong because I have engaged in the destructive behavior so long, I don't know how to stop.

That said, I may end up never coming back to this site. It may turn out that for me not to return to bad behavior, I'll need to stay away from all domme/sub orientated sites. I just don't know. Either way, thank you to all for making my time here enjoyable and giving me a healthy (if I can term it that) outlet for my fantasies.

[dark]

Dude, nobody here is speaking about giving up all your sexual desires. That would be not good, you can't deny yourself. If you like female domination go for it, but try to find females who you can trust, so they can't abuse your sexuality. And I am happy you see that you need help. The first step is to get more selfcontrol with the help of a psychologist. The second step is to learn how you can live out your sexuality without losing all the control. You have to learn how you can live it out healthy and safe. It makes no sense to deny your desire, because one day you will be weak for a moment and experience the same shit.

You need to find a way to live with your sexual desire. Good luck with that and I really hope you will make it.