Official "I'm Looking For A Domme, Dom or sub" Thread

[BondageSlave]

Hello lovely, sexy and gorgeous dom girls out there
I am looking for a female dom
I am 36 years old, I am very submissive and obedient. I would love to play a tease and denial game/challenge, i won't masturbate or even touch myself and if i do you win, if i am able to resist your charms and don't masturbate or touch myself i win.
I am ok with online, pms, chats, leaving me tasks and even camming. I will be an honorable slave and let you know if i lost.
If you are interested please send a pm, have a nice day

[fuckslut]

Hey everyone,

I'm a 19 year old college student looking for a domme. I'd love to be dominated and submit to your will. To be honest I have never done anything like this with another person, online or in person, but would love you to be my first. My biggest turn-on is femdom, and would love to do anything asked of me by a female dominant. I'm willing to do cei as well as cbt. I'm willing to please you however you want, I'm pretty much some clay that you can mold into the perfect sub to entertain you however you see fit. Please private message me if you are interested.

[FootlongSub]

Hello everyone!

I am 23 years old and have been active as a sub on here for a while but have recently also discovered my love of taking the role of dom! I am straight, but also don't have any problem with teasing or being teased by other male members of this community, since it doesn't really matter if it is only in text form anyway! So wether you are female, male a sub or a dom if you are interested in having a chat or swaping some instructions or tease ideas just hit me up!

Looking forward to hearing from any potential doms or subs!

[sissylora]

looking for a dom. I'm a 25 yo asian sissy boy, PM for photo and other detailed info:)

Love you all

[BedWarmer00]

Looking for a dom. I’m a 20 year old boy.

Message me to talk about kinks <3

[sillysissy89]

Hello slaves,

I´m looking for a new slave. The intensity of the training I want to reach and the time you need to spend on my tasks is not clear yet. I won´t expect you to send photos, at least in the beginning of the training. But I expect you to be honest and willing to give up things you might like. Crossing borders can take you places.

Requirements:
You have got a chastity cage and the according key as well as a safe and you are willing to let me control it using emlalock or a similar program.
You are willing to start a trust-based, serious relationship.

No applications will be accepted after 8/10/2015

best wishes

Ericargh

Goodevening,
I'm a 30 years old male/sissy/sub that never had a true relashionship like this, and that It would be very Happy to try and find One.

[rainyfixation]

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[Vennyo]

Heyhey everyone,

no idea if anybody replies to these, but its worth a try!
I am a 25 year old (mostly) straight M looking for a domme, sub or switch.
Altough i do prefer woman, i am also open to DMs from guys or anything in between (its roleplay over text so who cares, right?).
I have some experience with giving and recieving teases from both men and women, so if you have never done something like this i am happy to give some advice
The way that this would usually go is that the dominant person would take control over the subs orgasm and send him tasks and teases he must try and follow (over a week or so)
But the exact procedure can always be up for debate
As a sub i am (amongst other things) into edging, cbt and the likes, aswell as... unfair treatment? I guess i can say it like that
And what i like in the dominant role is to watch (or rather read) the other person having fun with their suffering! In other words i am pretty flexible.

Sooo... feel free to send me a DM if you want to talk about more details or if you have any questions and we can see if we are compatible!
I am also open to people who just want advice for this kind of thing... altough i do not claim to be an authority figure in the field!

Thanks for your time! Lets see if i will have any luck witht his post!

[Ideal]

Hi there, I'm looking for a Dom/me, for a three week period during february for a first experience into being owned.
Interested please PM.

[crushednuts]

[YamiLoli]

(Not looking anymore)
Hi everyone,

I am a 19 year old trans MtF. I am looking for an online open-minded dom, any gender.

Mainly I am excited by the idea of being ordered, controlled, used and I think I will enjoy showing myself on cam for you while being ordered and sending photos (maybe not right from the start though). I feel like I would enjoy a dom who would deny me cock pleasure (I'm not that good at taking denial yet though), and would instead tell me how to fuck my holes and maybe even give me anal and oral training

I enjoy anal/oral trainings like on sissy university and faproulette.co.
I also enjoy some pain, like nipple pain or some cbt but rarely do them on my own.
Some important things:
- No humiliation fetish, I don't enjoy it at all, though I enjoy being called "slut", "playtoy", "pet", which I don't consider humiliating and some other nicknames.
- I don't know yet how dedicated I can be to fulfilling orders, not as dedicated as a slave for sure but at least as a slut who can satisfy other people


Of course there is a lot more to discuss, so feel free to message me and we can just chat, get to know each other and maybe we will be a good match. After all I am hoping to form a trusting mutual relationship :)

[Subo_bucko]

Follow me on Instagram for more information I would give you my phone number but I wont post on here I do have snapchat as well just add me on insta first it's the name attached to this account dont be confused I am a switch

[Uam2020]

Hi there =)

Intro

I'm here seeking a woman or transwoman with whom to chat with and begin a mutual friendship. My hope is to meet someone who would eventually be open to a longer term online D/s dynamic relationship. I live on the West Coast of the USA (Pacific time). I don't really tend to get out much and since the pandemic started I have found myself spending a lot of time with.... myself. I'd like to change that. As long as this post is up I'm still actively looking.

I would like to find and connect with the right person as chemistry is very important to me. I am not looking to rush into anything and want to take this seriously. In the mean time if I make friends along the way then all the better =).

SFW:

Age: I am a 32 year old Male in search of Women or Transwoman over the age of 25

Appearance: I'm 5'11", chubby with Broad shoulders, short dirty brown hair, green eyes, and a cute smile (or so I've been told).

Location: I am seeking an online interaction only.

Pictures: I can provide pictures upon request.

Who I'm looking for:

Preferably I'd be interested in talking with someone who wants to explore a gentle femdom/FLR type of dynamic. Someone kind, compassionate, and nurturing who also likes taking the lead and being in control would be ideal. Someone nerdy and quick-witted would be a plus. I love being kept on my toes ;).

I'd be open to someone new to domination and looking to explore as much as I'd be willing to talk with someone who is experienced. Starting with someone new could be fun and allow us to grow together.

About me and what I have to offer:

I am a pretty average guy who is single, lives alone, and is gainfully employed. I enjoy creative writing, Role playing, movies, video games and tabletop gaming, tinkering, and fixing broken things. I'm shy at first but I warm up quickly once I get comfortable. I'd describe myself as a cuddly and softly masculine nerd.

As for what I have to offer. With whomever I speak I promise to always be open, honest, loyal, dutiful, and empathetic. I will be a confidante when you need someone confide in and be a rock for you to lean on if needed. I will never reject you or anyone else based on immutable characteristics. I will also never demand your time or attention. I understand your time is precious and I will be grateful for any time you wish to share with me.

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NSFW:

Experience:

I have limited experience with D/s and BDSM. Though I have dabbled in it here and there over the last 8 years.

Kinks:

Tease/Denial/Playful humiliation
Feminization/CD
Erotic roleplaying and creative writing
Orgasm Control (Includes Edging, Ruining, chastity, and requiring permission to have an orgasm.)
Structure oriented servitude. (Being given rules to follow and tasks to perform.)
JOI/CEI and Erotica control (Being told when and how to touch myself and what kind of erotica I can consume, if any.)
Anal and Prostate training (New to this. Still apprehensive but willing to submit to training.)

Limits - Hard NOs:

No FinDoms or participating in Financial Domination/Submission.
Ingesting or covering myself in Body fluids/Matter that aren't semen or vaginal fluid.
Cutting/Scarification/Tattoos/Piercings or any other permanent markings of any kind.
Overt public humiliation
Extreme Pain
Any play involving Racism/Misogyny/Misandry/Homophobia
Anything involving children or animals.
If any of this sounds interesting to you please feel free to PM me. If I don't get back to you right away please be patient. I will eventually =). It may take a day or two as I'll be busy. But i'll try to check in as often as I can.

[smutreader]

Male looking for a female online only flirt/chat partner. If you want dom/sub, I can do that. I am far more dom than sub. Mostly involving sexual teasing, fantasy sharing, etc. Not looking for male posing as female.

[Charlot]

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