OUTED !!!!

[SexualChoc]

OMG

I got outed about my secreat life here
to my Dad
I went to visit and open this stie up briefly...
And well apperently I didn't delete things Like I thought.

Fuck!

So now my elderly parents know,
I am not sure what impact this will have.

[Snot]

Wow I bet they had quite the surprise. Did they say something to you about it or do you just know the found out?

[SexualChoc]

Wow I bet they had quite the surprise. Did they say something to you about it or do you just know the found out?

I will be "talked to about it"

[Snot]

Man that's going to be awkward. Not sure how old you are but I was visiting my folks recently and my mom found my chastity cage while she was making the bed in the guest room I was sleeping in.

It was really awkward when she asked what it was. I just told her it was a toy.

I hope it turns out well... Or at less not so painful.

[Snot]

Well said Indy!

[les]

Uncle Les has had a long chat with sexy,
And helped him calm down
And what to say if the subject is broached.

I have been toying for some time writing about using a memory key,
To keep yourself to yourself on another's computer.

I use a key and when it is removed no trace of my actions are left.
Other than the Tech work I have done.

but all my internet takes part in portable Firefox.
because even if I am searching to cure an ill I may want to keep the history of sites visited

I use last pass to keep all my passwords safe, and XMarks keep my favourites/bookmarks synced.

this means even if I have not used portable firefox for a while it is fully up to date. when used.
All these are in the public domain and all are widely available on all reputable sites.
if you wish to hide info use truecrpt it is the best and free.

I am a "SOHO" tech and so not into big business protocols,
I have yet to find where these fail to work,

[AngelAnna837]

OMG

I got outed about my secreat life here
to my Dad
I went to visit and open this stie up briefly...
And well apperently I didn't delete things Like I thought.

Fuck!

So now my elderly parents know,
I am not sure what impact this will have.

*Supportive Huggel*

I agree with Indy :)

I know how hard it can be to share your deep dark secerts with people, but sometumes it works out for the best :)
A

[shell]

*wraps you up in a warm embrace*

[janmb]

I'm sure most of us has thoughts and concerns related to friends or family finding out. Which is kinda sad and stupid really, when you think about what this site is and what it isn't, but it's a common reality for most users of this site to keep it somewhat secret from different RL communities.

I hope it works out well for you SC, and can only applaud what indy wrote... It can't be said any better than that.


Not wanting to derail this, but a side note slightly related to this topic:

I frequently find myself thinking "OMG how boring sex life most people have, without even realizing it!" I'm sure a lot of you have the same thoughts now and then. I'm not judging or trying to elevate myself or others here above the general public, but after you have meddled in different fetishes and most importantly; worked to explore your sexuality for several years, you tend to end up in a place where vanilla sex seems so narrow and boring. For better and worse.

[Human]

Isnt SexualChoc married?

[Snot]

I don't know. Seems kind odd that his folks would beable to make a fuss over this if he's old enough to be here in the first place he should beable to make his own choices.

Indy's explanation would work great for normal people be if his folks are like my inlaws... I'd just tell the to stay out of my business.

I guess it depends on f you feel like they are open enough to bother explaining yourself to. From the way it sounds on this end they are not very open at all. My wifes folks are hard core Christians and are way to thick to even attempt to explain something like this to them.

I guess my point is do what feels right to you. You are an adult and if they are being pricks about it tell them next time they bring it up that it's not something you would care to discuss with them and that you don't want them to brin it up again. So pretty much tell the to fuck off in the most adult and respectful way you can.

Indy has really given you the best way I could imagine to tell them but when it boils down your still visiting and an active member on a site that promotes many things that would probably shock most people. Like eating your own cum and being ass fucked by your wife mistress.

It's a pretty damn big pill for most people to swallow no matter how much sugar you try to put on it.

[Human]

My wifes folks are hard core Christians and are way to thick to even attempt to explain something like this to them.

How did she turn out to be a kinkster then?

[Snot]

My wifes folks are hard core Christians and are way to thick to even attempt to explain something like this to them.

How did she turn out to be a kinkster then?

That's actully a really good story. I'll post about it in my Bumps on the road thread after I get home from work so I don't hijack this one.

[ordered]

awww... All compassion to ya, SC, I certainly wish you the best. Indy had the most reasonable reply. Personally, if I was in your shoes, I wouldn't say a word about it until (or IF) it was brought up. Then I'd say, "yeah I've been gay since I was 13 but never felt like telling you," and walk out of the room and house without any response to whatever else was said. Keep in mind, I wasn't gay at 13 nor am I now, but I'm not about to try and explain this website to my folks- the only birds and bees lesson I ever got was at about 28 y/o, something along the lines of, "I hope you're using protection so my grandchildren don't get stuck with that whore's retard gene."

[Handcuffed]

Uncle Les has had a long chat with sexy,
And helped him calm down
And what to say if the subject is broached.

I have been toying for some time writing about using a memory key,
To keep yourself to yourself on another's computer.

I use a key and when it is removed no trace of my actions are left.
Other than the Tech work I have done.

but all my internet takes part in portable Firefox.
because even if I am searching to cure an ill I may want to keep the history of sites visited

I use last pass to keep all my passwords safe, and XMarks keep my favourites/bookmarks synced.

this means even if I have not used portable firefox for a while it is fully up to date. when used.
All these are in the public domain and all are widely available on all reputable sites.
if you wish to hide info use truecrpt it is the best and free.

I am a "SOHO" tech and so not into big business protocols,
I have yet to find where these fail to work,

This is indeed a good idea. Just a little correction: the programs are not public domain, they are open source.

Best of luck to you, SexualChoc.