Be Careful What You Wish For

[webmaster007]

I've always been kind of turned on by the whole idea of a woman controlling my orgasms. My wife knows that and has sometimes been a little manipulative with it. Don't get me wrong, not in a bad way, just sort of I'll give you fun if we can do what I want kind of thing. Over the years, I've gotten her more comfortable with stuff like tying up and "torture" of bring me close and not letting me complete until I agree to her "demands", sometimes even over the span of a couple uncomfortable days.

The other day though she surprised me. First she kept my horny by bringing me close in the morning and the evening for two days. Then we were doing it and she held me close, tightened around me like a vice, started squeezing me with her pussy, and told me the only way I'd cum is if I let her tell me when I could from now on. Whispering stuff like how she'd be nice and not to worry about it. Silly me, I agreed and promised her, but she hasn't been quite as sweet as she led me to believe. She'd usually lose interest in anything pretty quick, but this time she's figured out how to take full advantage of my frustration.

My only regret is that it's way harder than I thought. She's a beautiful Asian woman (so smooth nice legs) and she's started dressing cuter and making a point of talking about how I have to ask her permission anytime before I can jack off. She knows I have a real thing for skirts so she's been starting to wear them again, she hadn't for years. Most of the time I have to do all the chores and stuff just to get a chance to whack off to computer porn, though sometimes other rewards. I don't dare try to cheat, because the last time I thwarted her she lured me into tying up and did a real number on me. Let's just say I've been doing every single chore I can think of to keep her happy and she treated me REALLY well last night after a long massage.

Honestly, I think it's helped our relationship. We'd gotten kind of distant from each other lately, each doing our own thing. My wife's been under a lot of stress, both of us really, but she has been more or less off of sex. She'll still have it and sometimes she cums, but really she has very little interest and doesn't instigate it. I resented her not showing much attention and I think she missed that I wasn't paying her that much attention anymore because I wasn't getting any. Now we have a fun game and she's been touching me more to tease me and I've been more receptive to her.

The only thing is though, according to her she's not letting me go for at least the next six months. I may have a long hard time if I do anything to tick her off.

[Forevergallant]

I would say I am happy for you. That sounds like a wonderful problem to have

[JasonSlut]

Webmaster007
Is your wife looking for another pet to play with and frustrate? I would be so up for that, she sounds tooooo hot! You bloody lucky geezer!!

[SexualChoc]

Six months?

You may want to considerd
investing in a chastity device.

Is she okay with giving you ruined ones?

Hope you keep us posted.
Remeber it's fun, but also to be sane and safe.

[webmaster007]

[quote="SexualChoc"]Six months?

You may want to considerd
investing in a chastity device.

Is she okay with giving you ruined ones?

Hope you keep us posted.
Remeber it's fun, but also to be sane and safe.[/quote]

She's really not into bondage toys. Mostly just liked to tease by holding tight to me and squeezing her pussy on me. It took a long time just to quietly convince to move on to some tying up. She really doesn't like "real" restraints, but the best thing I ever bought was [url]http://www.amazon.com/Pipedreams-Fetish ... B000KBT1FY[/url], because it was really non-threatening to her. If she'd go for it, a device might be fun for a short period like an evening, but long term probably not. Kind of works that if she's too tired/busy I can sort of bring my self close to build pressure, but I'll keep my word and not actually release anything. So more of a psychological chastity device, except for when she uses that tape and messes with me.

She's not doing strictly speaking ruined, but more the build up and then just stopping with only a lot of pre-cum generated. I've been subtly letting her know it's OK. A few times of darn didn't make it, well it's OK. Then boy I have to be nice to you today because I'm so horny now.

Oh yeah, most certainly being sane and safe. We're both on the very edge of it so neither of us will be going too far out there. She's really very sweet, one reason it took so long to convince her it was OK, so I'd trust her not to go to far with anything and change our relationship. Just have some fun and maybe get the lists of chores she wants done in a fun way. I don't know what I ever did to deserve just about the perfect woman, but must have done something right. Heck, even if we never had sex again, I'd consider myself danged lucky she puts up with me.

I'll post again if she does anything else fun.

[sillynick]

Nice one Web. Would suggest the slowly, slowly, catchee monkey method here. Sounds like you are switched on this anyhoo and don't want to frighten your good lady to the point where she does not do anything like this again. All i can say is take your time. Might be worth ensuring that she has orgasms lots even if it means you get lots of "face" time with her lady garden.

[webmaster007]

[quote="sillynick"]Nice one Web. Would suggest the slowly, slowly, catchee monkey method here. Sounds like you are switched on this anyhoo and don't want to frighten your good lady to the point where she does not do anything like this again. All i can say is take your time. Might be worth ensuring that she has orgasms lots even if it means you get lots of "face" time with her lady garden.[/quote]

You are so right, slow has been the way to go with it. We've been a couple for I guess it must be getting on eight years now and it's only in the last maybe three that anything like this started and we've worked up to this point. It's exciting to give her the control and have to go, "Honey, umm....I was good today, what do you think?" and have the chance be "Nah, maybe tomorrow."

The giving her oral is a good suggestion and something I really enjoy doing, so when I can it's great. I just love her taste and scent. One time when I was tied up and she put her panties over my face and left me until I considered trip destinations... We went where she wanted for vacation last year.

What I mentioned in the first post though, about us sort of getting more distant. Part of it is since she lost her job she's not been into sex that much, really stressed. She's still been doing it for me, plenty of quickies, but basically the "Oh you just go ahead, don't worry about me." thing. Usually have to almost tackle her to give her oral lately, but once I start she'll usually cum and then be really mellow and in a good mood afterwords.

I definitely don't want to scare her out of anything and hurt our relationship. As I mentioned, I'd just be happy being with her. The whole new little evil aspect is just great though. I'm kind of hoping as we go she gets more comfortable being a little more "mean".

[webmaster007]

Oh, forgot one other thing. By "tackle" her, it's possible because of one of the things I really love about her. She rarely likes to be naked when she's sleeping , but shortly after we started living together I managed to convince her why not just skip the panties when she's sleeping since it's more fun and comfortable. So except when it's really cold we usually both sleep in long shirts and nothing else. Mostly it's just nice to cuddle in the morning or before sleeping, just warm skin on skin, she really likes doing that too, but you can see why I'm thinking if she does start being a little more evil I may be in for it if she starts to deny for longer periods of time.

I really wish she'd wear more skirts, which is what I'm hoping with this whole control thing now she'll find it's a lot easier to get me to do housework if I'm turned on. I don't know why, she never likes to wear them out for some reason. Always saying she looks bad. Trust me, she couldn't look bad if she tried. So what she has been doing is more sun dress type things around the house, 50/50 chance of panties or not. I'd like more sexy like business skirts (my favorite) too since you're only young once, but worst case I can live with this.