New to Teasing ... Ideas?

[teaser13]

Hi,
My boyfriend and I would like to experiment with teasing. He has been looking at webteases and would like me to try to play along. Can you give me some ideas on how to transition from regular foreplay to teasing that a beginner will be comfortable with?

I know there are some creative people on this site, so maybe you can write out a scenario that I can follow (even for the week, although I don't think he can hold out much longer than that!)? Here are some details about what I am looking for. I would like to incorporate some playful use of feet, and I would like some suggestions on how to tease without being too dominating, yet still have most of the control. Any advice would be greatly appreciated, Thanks!!

[TheGraduate]

These "humiliate me" threads sure do pop up often. Nice try, but I believe you're a guy looking for wank material, it's painfully obvious.

If you were a concerned girlfriend, I would say don't stick to a script because it will really sour the experience for both parties. Just go with what feels natural, what you think will work. Get feedback, communicate, and adapt as you go. Every person and every couple is different. Trying to follow someone's fantasy to make yours happen is not the way to go, and especially don't imitate porn.

Read the teases of the month for a general idea what guys into this fetish find interesting, but most important, talk to him. Ask him these questions.

[slave alexander]

teaser13 >> i hope you find some answers/ inspiration here at Milovana!!

I`ve got my thinking cap on and will put some ideas here if & when, i come up with anything, my brain is on the go slow today unfortunately!

Have you tried using the search function on the teases tho >> there should be a lot of ideas for you there I`m sure .>just search foot worship etc >>> http://www.milovana.com/webteases/#search=foot+worship

It`s obviously a personal taste thing tho to an extent, where everyone is bound to have their individual personal favorites/ slant on their approach. For me what is being said, or even just hinted at can be a large part of the fun. So teasey comments in front of third party`s or even just a look from across the room can send the hairs on the back of ones neck standing up.

Also a week is not very long at all

Goodluck with your experimenting

slave alexander

[Little Miss Jay]

If you were a concerned girlfriend, I would say don't stick to a script because it will really sour the experience for both parties. Just go with what feels natural, what you think will work. Get feedback, communicate, and adapt as you go. Every person and every couple is different. Trying to follow someone's fantasy to make yours happen is not the way to go, and especially don't imitate porn.

Read the teases of the month for a general idea what guys into this fetish find interesting, but most important, talk to him. Ask him these questions.

I agree Graduate, When I first experimented in t&d I just did what came naturally...

I read teases for ideas but I never followed them to the letter, what the tease says might not be everyone's cup of tea. You need to work out what you both enjoy and what you are comfortable doing and go from there. Don't put pressure on yourself or him, just let things happen and progress on their own over time.

Good luck

Little Miss Jay x