Greetings everyone,
I have decided to create a HUB for a specific subset of genres/fetishes here on the Milovana forums. As the thread name suggests, there will be a conglomeration of the mentioned genres/fetishes as there is an overlap between them. The initial goal of this thread as I envision it (at the time of making it) is to have an introduction, a list of sources/creators, a glossary of terms, and a database/collection of files (to circumvent the inconvenience of websites taking stuff down). That being said, I am open to suggestions and would like it to become more of a community project - for which I am laying the first brick so to speak. If there is something you'd like to see added, please, let us know!
INTRODUCTION
There are some questions you might be asking yourself:
What is it?
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- It is primarily a sexual fantasy, so please treat it as such. In terms of Pussyfree/Censored/Beta Safe/Premature content, the general premise goes as follows. The author (i.e. the censor) decides how much the viewer (i.e. pussyfree loser/whiteboi/beta male) is allowed to see regarding the female body. The censorship methods can also vary (pixelation, black bars, images, timing, etc.) and the two extremes could be - full pixelation on one hand vs. seeing everything except the pussy on the other. As a result, authors have a lot of agency and many of them are very creative with the censorship tools.
To categorize it, I'd say that this Pussyfree/Censored/Beta Safe/Premature is a subset of another subset (or niche within a niche). The larger subset in this case also encapsulates themes such as:
- feminization/sissification
- female worship/superiority
- sexualizing female body parts other than boobs/ass/pussy (feet, face, hands, armpits, bellybutton, etc.)
- chastity (mental and/or physical)
- racial fantasy/BBC worship
and may include elements of other genres/fantasies, which are not exclusive to the subset, such as:
- orgasm denial/ruined orgasm
- small penis humiliation (SPH)
- cock and ball torture (CBT)
In general (from my experience), the pictures/videos usually focus on just a handful of these themes, not all of them. This brings us to the next question you might have.
Is it for me?
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- Well, we don't discriminate around here ... The serious answer is - it depends. We are trying to focus on a specific subset of themes and chances are that you may find a certain combination of them appealing. Originally, I was very skeptical about this whole thing too, but over time I found a way to ease myself into it. I encourage to you have a look around and see for yourself. Maybe you find out that you don't like it or perhaps that it doesn't make sense for you at this point and time - that's completely fine! You can always revisit it later.
WARNING
Please note, that some of the content is highly suggestive and tries to convince you that some of the "changes to your brain" are going to be permanent, which it might but... it is also a tool to create an immersive experience. I've gotta say, that some of the rabbit holes are quite deep, and on a few occasions, I had to stop digging as I got the feeling of "Wow, shit is getting too real for my liking." Beware, especially of the hypno files as they have the potential to transform your subconscious which will, in turn, affect your conscious behavior -> you have to decide for yourself, whether or not that is something you'd like to explore. If this paragraph scared you, I'm sorry, I just felt like it wouldn't be fair if I omitted important details of a potentially hazardous activity.
The rule of thumb is - don't do anything that makes you feel uncomfortable and don't force yourself into anything.
Why are you making this HUB?
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- As I eluded to in the opening paragraph, there are multiple reasons. I've been looking at various places for content of this kind for roughly 5-6 months. During this time I found out that there is a decent amount of content, but it's scattered all over the place and that there is no permanence to these uploads (as sites like to take content down seemingly at random). I hate it when I remember a certain video that I would like to go back to, but can't remember on which obscure site I saw it two weeks ago at 3 AM (and cleared my browser history since).
My hope is that laying the foundation for this genre/fetish here at Milovana will achieve at least some (and hopefully all) of the following:
- Create a vector for people to discover new aspects of their sexuality
- Inspire both new and existing content creators to share their take/spin on the fantasy
- Create and maintain a database of content and related files accessible to everyone
- Create a list of sources/creators with links to their content to help them with algorithms, discoverability, etc.; and in case you prefer watching online over downloading (esp. for creators that are not "native" to our forums here)
- Create a place where people can, and are encouraged to, share their experiences/journey with this fantasy
I am intrigued, where should I start?
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- If you clicked on this SPOILER, I assume you read all of the previous SPOILERS as well. In case you didn't please, read at least the one under the "Is it for me?", which contains an important warning. If you already read that, great! Let's begin.
As I mentioned, I'd like for people to share their experiences so that the newcomers can go and have a look at how others embarked on this journey. However, it might take a while before people share their experiences, so... I decided to share my own journey as well. And I suppose that it is the place to start.
MY (rebekeplex's) EXPERIENCE/JOURNEY
If this is your starting point, welcome! in this section, I will be trying to shed light on how I discovered those
Pussyfree/Censored/Beta Safe/Premature niches. This is a compromise between the entire origin story and the TL;DR - a nice read, but not excessively long. So, here I go.
I was browsing for some JOI videos and accidentally found one called something like "Premature Ejaculation Training JOI", but it was like ~3 minutes long, which was strange to me. I clicked on it and it turned out that there are two types of premature ejaculation training. The first one - focuses on making you last longer. The second one - focuses on making you cum ASAP. This was the latter. It caught me completely off-guard so I gave it a try, and to my surprise, I was able to cum within the 90-second window. I got intrigued by this whole idea of trying to cum ASAP, so I started digging for more info. I managed to find two guides, the second one being an iteration of the first one.
You can check the guides for yourself here (and I highly suggest you do, as I will only touch on the methods related to my experience/journey):
Guide 1 (by SurelyPremature)
Guide 2 (by Spotted_Dick)
What are my takeaways, what I applied (and didn't) and why, and what are the results? Well, I will start by talking about my goals with this "trying to cum faster" training. The idea behind it was to add this premature ejaculation/cum quickly to my "toolbox" to have more things to alternate between, alongside edging/gooning which are in essence the exact opposite.
The methods (I used =
GREEN; I did not use =
RED)
1.
keeping track of your progress (
physical stopwatch +
spreadsheet)
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- I'd say that if I wanted more consistent progress it would be worth using both of those tools, but sort of remembering the times and using Google stopwatch worked just fine for me. These are two reasons why I didn't use a physical stopwatch and spreadsheet. Firstly, a stopwatch cost more than I think it's worth (even a crappy one) and most of them require those tiny flat batteries that are also relatively expensive and annoying to shop for. Secondly, I didn't want to leave a "paper trail" (either physically on paper or virtually as a file on a shared computer).
2. To increase your sensitivity in the long term - this forks into three separate methods:
- Using a lighter grip and/or fewer fingers to masturbate
- Masturbating to less stimulating content
- Using a local anesthetic (lidocaine or similar)
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- Using a lighter grip and reducing the number of fingers down to two (over time) allowed me to re-calibrate my penis to this level of sensation as a baseline. When on occasion I go back to full hand and a firmer grip, I can make myself cum in ~ 30 seconds. However, there is a difference between that and having the "authentic" premature ejaculation experience (I will try to elaborate on this further later in the post).
Masturbating to less stimulating content has proven to be working for me as well. This is where the overlap between premature ejaculation and censored porn kicks in. In case censored porn is not your thing but you would still like to find some less stimulating content, there is a solution for you. Either, you can search for "non-nude porn" or you can type something like "bikini/lingerie try-on haul" on YouTube, and go from there. After that, going back to hardcore porn gave me a similar "kick" as way back when I saw porn for the first time.
I haven't deliberately applied anesthetics locally on my penis but I ended up using lube with an anesthetic in it, without having it explicitly disclosed on the packaging (later I found out that on the webshop it was mentioned and yes, it was an anal lube - which I didn't know when I was buying it). Anyway, I don't like the idea of temporarily reducing the sensitivity of the penis in the short term to perhaps gain some in the long run (I am just afraid that something might go terribly wrong and I will end up having desensitized penis forever). I can't recommend doing this, but feel free to experiment with it.
3.
masturbating every other day
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- In my experience, this translates to "Don't masturbate for at least 46 hours after you had an orgasm, ruined or otherwise." The 2-hour leeway from the "two-day cycle" allowed me to keep a sort of consistent training window when I was diligent about it (which was usually 10 days at a time). Trying to "cheat the system" by masturbating at 23:50 on Monday and then at 0:10 on Wednesday didn't do me any good, although it would technically qualify as masturbating "every other day".
4.
trigger training (Pavlovian conditioning)
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- I won't go into too much detail about the method itself, as it is a well-understood phenomenon and both of the guides provide a sufficient understanding of the topic (and you can always explore it on your own if you want to get into the nitty-gritty). If you decide to indulge in it, bear in mind that this is also one of the things that might have permanent effects on you. In terms of my results with it, I wasn't able to fully commit myself to it and my results are therefore mixed (unsurprisingly). I believe this to be a very potent tool.
CREATORS, LINKS & FILES
In case you are sold on the idea already, this is the "juice". I expect this section to be the most updated one. Those initial links include creators that I could remember/backtrack to.
LIST OF AUTHORS:
SurelyPremature
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- The author of the "original" guide. Chances are, that we wouldn't be here without him. Check their website, they have a lot of cool stuff in there - podcast, discord, and subreddit (currently banned as of making this post) to name a few.
https://prej.ac/
jb22
jackoclubsasmr
XileEdits
beta4blackdick
georgiephoto
FILES
Please, copy to your own MEGA folder before downloading.
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- https://mega.nz/folder/B2EDBLAQ#INgujvynkobpL28g2tH1rw
TO-DO LIST
- Crossreference older posts
- Glossary of terms (on second thought, is it even necessary?)
- Create a list of thematically related:
- Subreddits (as of late, the subreddit situation is shambolic at best... I will keep an eye on it)
- Discords (yes, it is possible to anonymously lurk around those in a web browser)
- Paywalled content - primarily C4S, IWC, MV, and LF (as there is currently no way to browse OF content from outside that I know of)
There is still a lot to do esp. in terms of getting the collection together and adding more creators/websites, etc. I will do my best to update the HUB whenever possible. In the meantime, please, have a read and let me know what you think or even share your experience if you'd like. Feel free to suggest what you would like to see as well
UPDATE LOG
In this section, I will post updates on what has been done since the last update (08.10.23)
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- UPDATE 08.10.23
- I am posting this update to inform you that expect to be more active rather soon-ish, as this transitional period of my life should be coming to a close.
- I have been immersing myself in the aforementioned content and would like to share my thoughts when I am back.
- I'd also like to thank asdqwe1234_ for sharing a large amount of content/resources (some of which has been on my radar too)
- The update log will go under a spoiler for less visual clutter
UPDATE 29.08.23
- I am posting this update to inform you that the project is still alive and kicking. Not a lof of progress has been made for the "TO-DO" list (due to some IRL hinderances), but I have been exploring and collecting some content to post on a later date.
- There will be a problem in a not-so-distant future with the mega folder as the capacity is only 15GB if I recall correctly. I'd like to have the videos in 1080p (ideally) or 720p as a bare minimum (if possible). I might end up seeding a torrent if the collection gets too big.
UPDATE 20.06.23
- Corrected some formatting and typos
- Added a "FILES" section for download
- Created a "starter pack" consisting primarily of premature ejaculation training videos (which can be found in the FILES section)
- Added a "TO-DO" list (primarily for myself to do, but input is appreciated) for things that I'd like to add in the future
