wannabe44 wrote: ↑Wed Nov 30, 2022 12:26 pm
But my intention was to pass this message:
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This is not applicable to everyone. I think too many people are boxed into this way of thinking, only way to retain high energy being denial, your tease maybe doing it too. Masturbation is imitation of sex, but is not a real thing. For real sex, after many years of experience, I learned I do not crave the ejaculation, I crave the lovemaking part. And I can have sex for a while, go through my wife's climax without ejaculating, have one of my own but if I don't contract my penis and pelvic muscles during sex I do not trigger ejaculation. I am completely satisfied if we stop, and I don't even remain horny, I can go to sleep, completely happy and full of energy. I think this state of high energy is what most people who are into denial like, but it is not coupled with denial, because I do have an orgasm, just no ejaculation, and the thing that is linked with lack of energy and being "down" is that expulsion of semen and energy.
I have not been able to achieve this outside of actual sex, without my wife. Which is a bit frustrating, because I don't want to ejaculate when playing with myself, but am unable to get rid of horniness otherwise, and when having sex, my wife enjoys to make me ejaculate and I agree to it every 10 days or so (I noticed that I can recover in like 3-4 days so this is the amount I can live with).