Official "I'm Looking For A Domme, Dom or sub" Thread

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Re: Official "I'm Looking For A Domme, Dom or sub" Thread

Post by phips_berlin »

Hey there,

I identify as a male switch, maybe kinkster on fetlife. I don't know, doesn't really matter (;
Anyways, I am mostly exploring my sub side online, and am drifting more and more into feminization, humiliation, slut training etc. For this I recently had the opportunity to have my porn consumption controlled, which ended with me not seeing a pussy or nipple in weeks, edging to sissies every day and begging for permission to cum. My top also began to force his bimbo fetish 'down my throat'. And although it was totally obvious, I really enjoyed this gentle conditioning and brainwashing.
Long story short, we are not playing together anymore, but I really enjoyed this porn control. Now I am looking for someone to take control of my daily desires again, gently forcing me deeper into the rabbit hole. And someone, who I can once in a while beg for permission to cum. Okay probably more often than that (;
Besides this, I am heavily into latex, bondage, tease & denial, butt stuff ...

If you are interested, drop me a line, or contact me on xhamster (phips) or discord(phips#9010)

Cheers!
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Hello, i am a slave boy from Egypt, 26 years old, i am looking for a mistress/Domme to be her slave and i am willing to do anything she say zero limits, i am willing to travel and be her 24/7 slave, i can live in a dog cage , can be marked or branded, and drink or eat anything she throw to me.
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Re: Official "I'm Looking For A Domme, Dom or sub" Thread

Post by Devilloki64 »

Howdy!

I am very interested in the idea of having a female domme :o
I do however have no experience and don't fully know what I do and don't like :blush:
I am happy to try new things if some lovely person is willing to work with me as a newbie.
If training a newbie and breaking me in is appealing then yay!
Also can be very casual or otherwise, willing to discuss!
Hoping to hear from someone soon :3
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New to all this but willing to learn :yes:
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Post by Sissy-Coco »

Dear Mistresses and Masters,

Let me tell sth u about me:

My name is Coco, im a 35yo Sissy-Slut from Germany. I´m kinda regular shaped, have a round ass and passable tits. one of my nipple is pierced. I have quite some lingery and stuff like that and several toys (plugs, dildo, clamps, whip...).

My Turn ons are: feminization, Cocksucking-Fantasies, anal, clamps on my body, cum-eating, some pain, chastity...
My turn offs are: Denial, heavy public, pee, financial-domination (as im a poor student),
Absolut Limits: Kids, pets, family, poo, scat, blood, marks on my body

I have a skype acount and will show on cam and pics. I am going on a busines trip to a Hotel soon, so I could serve u for a longer Period (e.g. a whole evening/night) on Cam.

Im willing and eager to be ur sissy-sub-slut, please let me prove my submissiveness to u.

If your a Mistress or Master or SIssy-Domme and interested in training and educating me please contact me via PM or KIK/Skype: sissy_coco14

I would Love to have our first Session very soon.

Submissive greeting from Germany your coco
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Re: Official "I'm Looking For A Domme, Dom or sub" Thread

Post by Enigmatic_switch »

Hi all :wave:

I'm looking for an anal trainer : mistress, master, sissy, trans, it doesn't matter...
* I Am a Man from Belgium, speak french english+-, 30 years, Bi curious ans switch (more sub)
* I practice Tease and Denial with my wife and some soft BDSM (bondage, slap)
I hope find someone here to help me to practice anal and maybe more ! I don't have experience, just a finger, i want more and more
* I like roleplay, feminization and cosplay too
(I Am a foot lover and shemale make me horny)

See you soon :love:
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Re: Official "I'm Looking For A Domme, Dom or sub" Thread

Post by brickhouse05 »

Hello,
I'm just looking for someone to play with. I'm a 21m switch and I can get into almost anything so whether you're a dom or a sub, we can probably find some fun way to play together. ;-) pm me if you're interested in playing! :love:
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Re: Official "I'm Looking For A Domme, Dom or sub" Thread

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M, switch. Looking for cock control, teasing, edging, cbt, bondage, ruined, p.o.t, polishing, palming and anal. Plenty of toys and estim to have fun with. Control my estim on xtoys. DM me
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Re: Official "I'm Looking For A Domme, Dom or sub" Thread

Post by Puppy_corn »

I'm Cosmo! (21 m)

I'm kind of vanilla as far as this website would be concerned. I like tease and denial, and some other ones. I'm also a furry, and Im into that furry shit

Starting off I just want someone to do kinky things with. I can do the teasing and denying, but I always prefer receiving it. Other than that, we can explore together.

PM me if you wanna talk more ^^
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Re: Official "I'm Looking For A Domme, Dom or sub" Thread

Post by kokotina1234 »

Looking for Mistress or Master to dominate me and control me (open to anyone)

I am 18 year old male from Slovakia, my kinks are: Chastity, CBT, anal, pain, humiliation, exposure(no face), sph, edging, T&D, petplay
can try sometime: toilet kinks, cei, sissification, feminization, pot, sounding, (scat and blackmail, but thats really border)
limits: findom, permament marks on body or wounds

pm me if you have any other questions
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Post by Secrecyisforbidden »

Hiya..

Im a 20 yr sub bi Male from cali

Im just looking for someone to talk to, maybe do more or even own me..
Im kinda new to all this but I do have toys
I like anal stuff and I have a bit of oral practice, other then that im not really sure what im into, but im willing to explore
Ive hadnt had my first experience yet, I dont live alone, and im also really introverted..

If youre interested in talking to me or have any questions, feel free to message me.

Thanks
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Re: Official "I'm Looking For A Domme, Dom or sub" Thread

Post by That1Guy545 »

Hello Dommes, Doms, Switchs, subs, and slaves,

M, mid 30s, switch.
Would like to find someone to play with or to play with me. Not well trained as a sub so I'll need a little bit of a helping hand to get me trained right. Never been into guys if that's what you want to train me into it may take some time.

Me for sub- light CBT, edging, denial, assplay (only had two fingers), humiliation, etc.

My sub limits- pee, scat, age play, CEI, findom, etc.

My Dom kinks and limits are about the same but a little more flexible.

I'm not looking for full time but that could change. If you have any questions or want to play please DM me. Looking forward to talking with you. 😉
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Re: Official "I'm Looking For A Domme, Dom or sub" Thread

Post by argonaut »

I'm a sub looking for a Dom, and Domme. I"m interested in becoming more of an erotic person. I'm 3 (36 in four days), a virgin, bottom submissive, looking for consensual but far out sexual experimentation. Long term masters for online and preferably in real life in the Phoenix area would be best but I'll take online master and domme too. I'm into a ton of different fetishes and I'm willing to expand a little for my superiors. My name's Jake and I promise I WILL expand very very far from where I am now into stuff that even some hookers would be embarrassed to do.

Yes, I am still looking.

Aftercare is a must.

I might eventually do real meet ups. Maybe not.
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Re: Official "I'm Looking For A Domme, Dom or sub" Thread

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Re: Official "I'm Looking For A Domme, Dom or sub" Thread

Post by yondumesP »

Hey there everyone :love:

I'm a femboy willing to both dom and sub for anyone needy. I've got a wide variety of fetishes, but highlights include petplay, diapers, feet, and power-play. I'm open to a wide variety of fetishes, so very little is off the table. I'm still a bit inexperienced, but I'm slowly learning. I'm almost always active, so regardless of when you see this chances are I'll be free and willing. I own a dildo, vibrating buttplug with tail attachment, and a handful of other small accessories. Feel free to message me anytime with questions or if you want to start something :love:
- Yondumes
Please insult and degrade me :love:
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Re: Official "I'm Looking For A Domme, Dom or sub" Thread

Post by slaveboy1337 »

Hey everyone,

I am looking for a mistress who turns me into her ruined orgasm slave. If there is any interest please contact me.

Greets
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