How to try dick
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How to try dick
I almost sucked a dick the other day but couldn't bring myself to do it. Any advice on how to convince myself to try dick??
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Re: How to try dick
So i'd like to point out the obvious first.
If you need to convince yourself, sounds like you don't want to do it, so you certainly shouldn't feel any obligation to do it.
On the other hand.
It can be a daunting thing to do for a first time. As a Straight/Bi guy who has done it, I know I was concerned about hang ups like 'being gay' or there are plenty of negative stories about 'giving head'. But honestly, I found once you get past the ideas about sucking a dick and actually get to the action of doing it, its a really good time. As someone with a dick, I knew exactly what I should be doing, so when I started getting plenty of positive reactions, it felt really good to know I was giving a blowjob I would want to receive.
I was lucky enough to find someone else in a similar situation, who wanted to gently explore things too. We started out watching some porn together and just worked our way up to sucking each other.
The biggest advice I can give you though is to be as relaxed as possible. This is not such an issue if you are the one performing the act, but I know I got a case of stage fright the first few times, simply because I couldn't get out of my own head.
So even if you physically commit to playing with another guy, it will be far more fun and enjoyable if you can let go, enjoy the moment and just take pleasure in giving someone else pleasure. Its basically the nicest thing you can do for someone after all!
If you need to convince yourself, sounds like you don't want to do it, so you certainly shouldn't feel any obligation to do it.
On the other hand.
It can be a daunting thing to do for a first time. As a Straight/Bi guy who has done it, I know I was concerned about hang ups like 'being gay' or there are plenty of negative stories about 'giving head'. But honestly, I found once you get past the ideas about sucking a dick and actually get to the action of doing it, its a really good time. As someone with a dick, I knew exactly what I should be doing, so when I started getting plenty of positive reactions, it felt really good to know I was giving a blowjob I would want to receive.
I was lucky enough to find someone else in a similar situation, who wanted to gently explore things too. We started out watching some porn together and just worked our way up to sucking each other.
The biggest advice I can give you though is to be as relaxed as possible. This is not such an issue if you are the one performing the act, but I know I got a case of stage fright the first few times, simply because I couldn't get out of my own head.
So even if you physically commit to playing with another guy, it will be far more fun and enjoyable if you can let go, enjoy the moment and just take pleasure in giving someone else pleasure. Its basically the nicest thing you can do for someone after all!
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Re: How to try dick
ohh also, watch a lot of blowjob porn leading up to it and fantasize about being the one in the video seems like a simple way to really motivate yourself mentally. along with a few days of denial before hand (I know I am always down for a lot more if I've not cum for a while)
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