janmb wrote: ↑Mon Feb 04, 2019 5:53 pm
3. Use lube. Any water based lube is fine. I believe there are antibacterial versions out there too - might be the best idea.
Thanks in general and especially for this info. I haven't heard of antibacterial lube before. I'll definitely purchase it just to be on the safer side
GodDragon wrote: ↑Mon Feb 04, 2019 9:04 pm
Wow, I guess your gf really owns you
Well, actually we don't have a FLR, so our playtime doesn't influence our non-sex time. (Well, aside from me wearing a cock cage most of the time
) Anyway, things happen at a rather fast pace right now, but we're bot comfortable with it. If you are interested, I created two threads (
[1],
[2]) where I wrote about what we do and how it evolved.
GodDragon wrote: ↑Mon Feb 04, 2019 9:04 pm
Best way to test stuff out with a sounding kit is to apply lots of lube and then just put the penis straight up and just let the sound sink into the shaft without any force. Then pull it back out and do the same again. Never apply any force and for starters to test how deep it goes just let it find its way. If you use enough lube (you should use a lot) it will be easy peasy. Use the smallest one first and if a thicker one won't glide in never apply any pressure.
It will hurt afterwards especially peeing but make sure to do it. Peeing afterwards is important to get everything that is remaining out of your urethra. It will hurt, no doubt, but it is important and you should not shy away from peeing afterwards.
Thanks again. How much will it hurt? I haven't done anything like that before and I'm curious...
GodDragon wrote: ↑Mon Feb 04, 2019 9:04 pm
Regarding a cage with something like this: Yes it is basically safe to cum with it. Even more safe it you are outside of a cage and just have a straight thing inside you urethra. It is not pleasant though but I guess your gf doesn't want it to be pleasant anyway
When it comes to long time usage: Don't do it. I would suggest using it as a matter of punishment but never wear it for too long. First of all infections are a risk you have to deal with and second of all: It is not pleasant and even though it might seem very hot at the beginning you will be very happy when you can remove it aftewards and it will hurt. So I would suggest using it for punishment purposes, such as for a few hours or a whole night or even a full day but don't think about it for long term use.
Best of luck and I hope that your gf is gonna take care of you and won't be too punishing
No, this orgasm isn't supposed to be pleasant. (As a matter of fact, most of them aren't supposed to be pleasant
). I think her idea is to have me wear this cage during the day and being released in the evening. Hence, I'll probably wear it four roughly 10 hours.
A while ago, I read a blog about a chastity couple who stopped using a cage with a plug because it damaged the guy's urethra. I think he often wore it for a few days and somehow an accident happened during the night. So, any additional info in that regard would be appreciated