Hey guys I am the vanilla child who sent that email.
First of all a big thanks for people taking an interest in my question, and I appreciate your suggestions for teases, you all suggested some good stuff, also found some that i liked in Slavechylde's thursday picks.
I took your advice and had a look around for myself as well though and found an old tease that fits the category of vanilla, it is awesome. Seriously if you have not seen this one, check it out!!
Lip Lock Legend by silkysheering
http://www.milovana.com/webteases/showtease.php?id=1079
I think after exams I may try my hand at making a tease (hehe pun). I'm not sure how it would be recieved though. I might write one in which the girl is sexually frustrated and playing with herself on webcam following the guys wishes and needing him just as much as he needs her. if anyone feels like making something like this before I get to it feel free, I'd be glad to have inspired you. I just wonder if it is an idea contrary to what this site is about? Teases without denial, humiliation, or degredation, pretty much an extremely long foreplay.
Anyway guys let m know what you think of this, feedback on the idea would be awesome.