Submissive Men- Naturally Dominant Women

[Velo]

I'm curious how many of you are sexually submissive?

Yes, very much so.

Are you submissive outside of the bedroom?

Somewhat

Could you ever see yourself in a D/s relationship where the woman fully controlled everything? If so or if not, explain your ideal D/s relationship.

Yes, but I'd find varying degrees of control at least as hot. It also seems like it'd be a lot of work for her to control everything all the time. I think if she was really into the idea and wanting that, I'd agree, but otherwise a less absolute level of control would probably be more practical.

[Seriously?]

I'm curious how many of you are sexually submissive?
I very much am a switch and if say it goes in phases. There might be 6 months where I want to be submissive and then one day, I'm back to wanting to not be. I'd say I probably lean more towards submissive though as even when I'm dominate, I'm never overly dominate.

Are you submissive outside of the bedroom?
I don't think so, but I'm certainly not an alpha type. I'm smart and opinionated but I'm also persuaded when I'm wrong. I'd say I'm pretty mixed in daily life.

Could you ever see yourself in a D/s relationship where the woman fully controlled everything? If so or if not, explain your ideal D/s relationship.

I honestly don't know. I can certainly imagine it and though I think I would like it, I know that naturally, there would be times when I would want to be in control. Though I love when a woman is in control of me, sexually, there are always time when I want to use my power to take her hard and, for example, fuck her mouth while holding her down.

My ideal d/s relationship would be a truly switch one, with me being the sub maybe 60% of the time. And though it might seem a little clinical, I would love to have a relationship where my partner and I rolled a die each month to find out who would be the sub for the month. Maybe a d-10 and if a 1-6 is rolled she would be my goddess, if a 7-10 were rolled, I would be her master. During that time both of us would be fine with anything in our limits.

[alba]

I'm curious how many of you are sexually submissive?
I myself am a switch. I like to dominate women, but I also like to be dominated.
I'd be perfectly fine with never dominating however, if that's what it takes to be dominated.

Are you submissive outside of the bedroom?
In a non-sexual way, I'm very dominant and I like to get what I want.

Could you ever see yourself in a D/s relationship where the woman fully controlled everything? If so or if not, explain your ideal D/s relationship.
I don't accept it if a women controls everything. My ideal relationship would be one where my wife is dominant over all sexual stuff, even outside of the bedroom. She can also be dominant over non-sexual stuff, but she can't abuse that to change my life.
For example, when walking through the city, She could command me to lick her pussy in a hidden place.
Or when on restaurant, she could say "If you don't order menu X, you won't be cumming next week."
She shouldn't start saying things like: "You're not going to that event.", "buy these clothes" or "get another job".
In short, she can control everything sexual, use sex to bribe me for non-sexual things, as long as she doesn't really control my entire life.

[andy wood]

I'm just curious about a few things and this forum seems like it has a lot of intelligent people.

I'm curious how many of you are sexually submissive?

Are you submissive outside of the bedroom?

Could you ever see yourself in a D/s relationship where the woman fully controlled everything? If so or if not, explain your ideal D/s relationship.

Thanks!

1) Am I sexually submissive? The women I enjoy sex with most are sexually self-confident and even sexually aggressive. But I am not a masochist, and I have no interest in most forms of submissive play. For example, I can enjoy tease and denial, and along with that, I can be restrained. But to be tied up just for the sake of being tied up does not appeal to me.

2) Outside of the bedroom (and also in the bedroom), I can lead or I can follow. What matters is that the leader is a good leader who plans wisely and communicates clearly. If a woman is a "Domme" and that means she hates the world and wants to inflict suffering, then my answer to that is "no thanks". But if a woman is a "Domme" and she is a confident leader who is comfortable saying what she wants, then that is great. Likewise, if a woman is a "sub" and that means that she is an immature indecisive whiner who does not know what she wants, then my answer to that is "no thanks". But if she is a "sub" and that means that one of her biggest desires is to make me happy and hear that I appreciate all she does for me, then that is great.

3) An ex-girlfriend of mine was both a lifestyle Domme and pro-Domme. She was a wild nymphomaniac, so I mostly enjoyed our time in bed. But she was a bossy control freak, and also not a competent leader. If she either had not tried to control everything, or if she had controlled everything competently, then I could have been comfortable with that.
An ideal Domme for me would control my orgasms in such a way that I would always be hot for Her, often edge for Her, and sometimes cum for Her. I am not sure how realistic this is, though. A hot fantasy for me is "It is Saturday morning, I have not cum for a least a week, and now Mistress begins some tease and denial play". But the problem with making this fantasy real is that in order to reach Saturday in that condition, I would have to endure the boredom and frustration of Sunday through Friday in chastity. Some fantasies do not work well in real life.