tease and denal - ungesund? / t&d - unhealthy?

[Pornmaniac]

Hallo Zusammen,

bin relativ neu auf dieser Seite und habe den Denial Fetish auch erst vor ein paar Monaten bei mir entdeckt... da meine Partnerin eher devot ist, kann ich dies nicht mit ihr ausleben, da wir aber eine Fernbeziehung führen, habe ich genung Zeit dieses alleine zu tun ;)
Bin zur Zeit seit Mittwoch nicht mehr gekommen (und dort auch nur ruiniert) und habe mich mehrmals täglich zum edgen gebracht... auch immer direkt vorm schlafen sowie nach dem aufmachen (mehrmals).

So nun zu meiner Frage... kann es ungesund sein, dass man so lange erregt wird, aber nicht abspritzt? Meine Eier und auch der Bereich um den Shaft des Penis tut mittlerweile etwas weh... auch beim Wasserlassen ist das Gefühl eher unangenehm...
Ich hab bei wiki. etwas von Kavaliersschmerzen gelesen und dort heißt es, dass man bei anhaltenenden Schmerzen zum Arzt gehen sollte... bevor ich das tue, spritze ich natürlich lieber ab... aber wie sind eure Erfahrungen?

(english)
Hi,

i am kind of new here and i just found out about me denial fetish a few month back... i am in a relationship but i cant do that kind of stuff with my partner, but she lives far away therefore i got a enough time on my own ;)
Till now i didnt cum since wednesday and iam ediging a lot every day!

my question is... could it be unhealthy? i got a little pain in my balls and the area around the bottom of the shaft.... also when i am peeing.
I read something about "blue balls" and that you should concact a doctor after a few days...
what are your experience with that?

[Nezhul]

Your balls will be just fine. Normally the body will dispose from anything unnecessary. It's not bad as such, not for few days for sure. If you plan to go for longer it is generally suggested to milk your prostate regularily by using prostate massagers. It will eject it's liquid and the blood will flow better to it, and it'll be fine. It is commonly agreed that lack of frequent prostate work (normally orgasms) may result in prostate cancer over long terms. Or increase it's probability.

You should not worry too much short term though. If you have a ruined or full orgasm every other week it will be just as good too.

Also blue balls is basically just a termin. If your balls turn blue by any chance, then you should IMMEDIATELY contact a doctor. If they just feel a bit sore and heavy it's ok. Edging and denial will not do any harm for them.

Seeing you on this site I should warn you about CBT though. Even light slapping/spanking may cause injury. Just be concious about pain if you are interested in it. Don't overdo it.

And one last thing - denial destroys your sexual stamina. Be shure to cum for a day or two before you meet your girlfriend to relieve the tension. OR be ready to cum fast.

[Pornmaniac]

@Nezhul...

thanks for the detailled answer..
i am not really into cbt, so that wont be a problem ;)


but "denial destroys your sexual stamina"??? i mean sure... its not good to go to a date fully loaded (see "Something about Mary" ;)) but i thought that this kind of "training" would help the stamina...

[janmb]

Denial does not hurt your stamina either.

Sure, going without stimulation at all for a long time will certainly make you more aroused and cum faster the next time you are allowed to, but no it will not affect your stamina in general - just as a short term, situational thing as a direct consequence of being more turned on that you'd normally be.

Being completely asexual over time though, IS unhealthy. And contrary to some of the christian fundamentalist "research" that likes to conclude that masturbation (or even sex) being unhealthy, real research has found that being completely sexually inactive over a long period can be unhealthy and increase the likelihood of prostate cancer when you get older. The prostate has great benefits from both sexual arousal as well as release, so being sexually active and releasing at least occasionally (as in once a month or more at least) is generally good health advice.

If you want prostate cancer though, go with the christian alternative: Have as little sex as possible, preferably only when directly trying to make kids, never ever even think of sex if you aren't married, and most definitely never play with yourself.

[Nezhul]

By that I meant that you'll cum faster if you haven't cum for awhile. It doesn't hurt stamina long-term, does not make you cum faster as a rule. It's just that your arousal will make you cum faster.

[janmb]

By that I meant that you'll cum faster if you haven't cum for awhile. It doesn't hurt stamina long-term, does not make you cum faster as a rule. It's just that your arousal will make you cum faster.

Precisely. Makes perfect sense and is completely harmless

[JustMeNow]

Es ist nicht ungesund, aber auch nicht gesund.....
Frage: du kennst ein handynummer auswendig?
Und wenn du's eine Jahre nicht anruft?
So geht's mit muskeln auch....

Du sollst wenigstens ein orgasmus ruinieren, zweimal pro woche bis einmal pro zwei wochen.

Ohne das.... na ja... was man nicht benutzt... brauchst du auch nicht und das wird ein effekt haben in dein körper.

[dereknor]

I have been chaste for 6 month with permanent edging. And I'm still healthy ;) But maybe every body is different, not sure. I never felt any pain. I just got really horny after edging a lot. But I think a few days will never be unhealthy. Maybe if you try it for months. But even then, I had totally no problems after 6 month.

[JustMeNow]

I have been chaste for 6 month with permanent edging. And I'm still healthy ;) But maybe every body is different, not sure. I never felt any pain. I just got really horny after edging a lot. But I think a few days will never be unhealthy. Maybe if you try it for months. But even then, I had totally no problems after 6 month.

That's probably because of edging.
When 6 months without edging, things can start to shrink a bit I guess.

[S.M.]

After two weeks of heavy edging, my ejaculate was so thick it almost looked like a jelly. It never happened before and even after two or three days of denial it's normal and I shoot a huge jet of cum. I did hydrate properly since I drink a 1,5 liter bottle of water daily + lots of tea. It got me confused so much that I haven't denied myself since then. Did this happen to anyone? Any advice?

[JustMeNow]

It depends on a few factors I guess.
For example, how did you have an orgasm? Did you leave for a few hours and then straight to an orgasm without any build up?
At least I know that I can produce a jelly substance if I just go for an orgasm without any stimulation in the hours before.
Usually for me it's like "more time spent before orgasm = bigger (and wetter) load".