A personal message

[dark]

Hello friends

After I already had a small break from Milovana, because I was tired of the "drama" (how you people always call it) going on here I decided to not be longer available for such problems. This site gave me a lot and I will be always thankful for it. I met so much great people and I will still support this site, like doing the TOTM and caring about technical problems users have, if I can help them.

But I will not care anymore about the disputes going on here and the intrigues some users here create. I will also do not check anymore users for multiaccounts. Too much good people left this community because they felt these things shouldn't happen on this site and they are right. I will not leave this site but the last weeks were horrible for me. So much users came to me and demanded decision and reactions from me and everybody told me a different story. I can say that I never had a personal problem with a user here, so I am pretty sure that it is your own fault if you have trouble with other users. Look for your own faults and stop blaming other people for them.

I mean I feel complimented that you all came to me, because it shows me that you trust me and think I could understand you, but it is enough I don't wanna hear these things every time when I log in here. I am also here to have fun and explore my and other peoples sexuality.

Please stop sending me PM's about these issues or talk to me in chat about I will ignore these requests from now on. You people should be adult enough to solve these problems by yourself.

Please also understand this post as a personal request by me:

This site is free and offers you people a lot. A lot of people here spending their spare time or even their money to improve this site and keep it running. The philosophy of this site is so beautiful because it's only sense is to spread love and free sexuality and give all people on this planet the possibility to experience that to live out fetishes is nothing dirty or perverted.

So please don't make this place to a bad place.

Thank you for reading.

[someone43]

Solution to Whirled Peas!!!

1 - Age verification to join the site using a credit card that will not be charged unless...
2 - You act out and must pay a preset idiot tax at the behest of the mods.

Example: I would have probably needed to pay more than just my $0.02 for this post.

[rbtheservant]

Did I miss something? I must be out of the loop. I find this community to be fantastic. I don't enter the Chat, I suspect that is where these "drama" things are happening. Dark, I thank you for all of your hard work to this site, and am very happy that you are staying onboard in that capacity. I am not sure I know of the events you are referring to, but I personally hope that this community and site remain the great retreat that it has become to me and so many other happy members. Happy teasing everyone.

Sincerely,


Oops! Just read what you were referring to Dark. That topic is so beat!
Just enjoy the site folks.

[seraph0x]

Hehe, looks like dark just learned a valuable lesson about moderating a community.

All I can say is that I got my fair share of PMs myself and people ask me to ban others, delete some post they don't like etc. Well, it's in human nature for us to call on some higher power to solve our problems for us, but anybody who has been in the position of that higher power - be it a teacher, a parent, a manager or a policeman - will at some point notice that getting involved in these fights usually does more harm than good. Best to just to give some well-meaning advice and let the squabblers settle it among themselves.

If people leave, that's sad of course, but the coming and going is also what keeps a community moving forward and developing. Plus very often, bonds that have formed here will survive the actual involvement in the site and that's more important to me than the number of visitors on any given day.

[neo36]

Amen Seraph0x and Dark, I totally agree with you two.

There is no place for drama here, we are all explorers here and should keep an open mind and be nice and mostly respectful to each other. Doesn't mean that if someone differs opinion from you that it's not ok, if people have a problem with others they should handle it as Adults and take it into a private conversation and not whine or cause drama to the whole community about it. It's all a matter of respect.

Thanks a bunch Dark and Seraph0x for this amazing site.


Sorry for my spelling or syntax..... English not my language.

Neo