Anyone thinks losing weight can be mixed with domination and humiliation
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Anyone thinks losing weight can be mixed with domination and humiliation
So today i had this idea while i was on the train heading back home after yet another depressing day at the office. The last few weeks i have been following a diet and started running 3 to 4 times a week to lose weight and get a nice body again. One i can be proud off.
Now i know it takes time and a lot of effort, but i was trying to think of something that could help speed it up. Then i thought, what if there is someone monitoring the results? Someone that would set goals and that would give punishments when i don't achieve them. And maybe even reward me in some way if the goals are achieved? Would that make me work harder? Push myself more?
I know this might just be the stupidest idea ever.....but what do you think? Is it something that could work? Is there anyone willing to give it a go?
Now i know it takes time and a lot of effort, but i was trying to think of something that could help speed it up. Then i thought, what if there is someone monitoring the results? Someone that would set goals and that would give punishments when i don't achieve them. And maybe even reward me in some way if the goals are achieved? Would that make me work harder? Push myself more?
I know this might just be the stupidest idea ever.....but what do you think? Is it something that could work? Is there anyone willing to give it a go?
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Re: Anyone thinks losing weight can be mixed with domination and humiliation
yes, we have been talking about it plenty for sure. Im sure theres plenty of webteases related to this too....
threads:
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viewtopic.php?f=22&t=15768
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threads:
viewtopic.php?f=22&t=15962&p=200293#p200293
viewtopic.php?f=22&t=15768
viewtopic.php?f=22&t=15802
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Re: Anyone thinks losing weight can be mixed with domination and humiliation
I can tell you it works. For me, it wasn't so much when I started, but once I had lost 40 pounds it was great motivation to keep it off. There is the obvious preference from my wife and online mistresses. There is the rush from getting watched while I exercise. I haven't ben punished for missing exercises or putting weight back on, but that would great motivator too.
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ok boyastoy, here's your task...
You check your weight every sunday.
depending on your loss of weight during the week you may:
Loss:
more than 1 kilogramm: you may cum
0,5 to 1 kilogramm: you may ruin
0,0 to 0,5 kilogramm: you may edge
during the following week you are free to stroke and you are allowed to edge once a day.
If you didn't lose weight you are in no touch for the next week For every 10 gramms more than the week before, you will slap your balls 1 time.
You will post your success regularly in this thread.
You check your weight every sunday.
depending on your loss of weight during the week you may:
Loss:
more than 1 kilogramm: you may cum
0,5 to 1 kilogramm: you may ruin
0,0 to 0,5 kilogramm: you may edge
during the following week you are free to stroke and you are allowed to edge once a day.
If you didn't lose weight you are in no touch for the next week For every 10 gramms more than the week before, you will slap your balls 1 time.
You will post your success regularly in this thread.
Currently playing Della´s game
started: june,30 at page 820
actually page: 824
edges: 15/15
started: june,30 at page 820
actually page: 824
edges: 15/15
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Nice to see some reactions...although some of them aren't exactly about what i meant...
I wasn't talking about a webtease with exercising in it or being watched by a Dom(me) while exercising....
The idea is more along the lines of Devoti's post...so i think i am up for that....but it could use a little more input...
Like suggestions on what to do to lose more weight.....and to be honest a ruined orgasm or not being allowed to cum
doesn't feel like a real punishment....so that's not really motivating to succeed...
And who will make sure i endure the set punishments...? Any more idea's on that..?
Hoping for some more reactions....so i can start this sunday...
I wasn't talking about a webtease with exercising in it or being watched by a Dom(me) while exercising....
The idea is more along the lines of Devoti's post...so i think i am up for that....but it could use a little more input...
Like suggestions on what to do to lose more weight.....and to be honest a ruined orgasm or not being allowed to cum
doesn't feel like a real punishment....so that's not really motivating to succeed...
And who will make sure i endure the set punishments...? Any more idea's on that..?
Hoping for some more reactions....so i can start this sunday...
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Re: Anyone thinks losing weight can be mixed with domination and humiliation
Having a real person controlling you really helps a lot, but many people are just not having someone for that.
That was also the case for me and I wanted to combine losing weight with orgasm denial.
I kept it simple and set strict goals. I was very close to 100kg and allowed me one orgasm every 2,0kg I lost.
Sure there is nobody controlling you and you could always just say fuck it I want that orgasm now.
But that would be a big disappointment and I would have felt really bad after that orgasm.
For 2,0kg I needed about 20-30 days.
I also rewarded myself with toys at specific goals. For example I always wanted to try a Hitatchi Vibrator on my cock.
So I said to myself, when reaching 95kg I will buy one and orgasm with it.
For me orgasm denial was always a big motivator. I love to be denied orgasms but after a week or so I start to want that orgasm very much. So I worked for it to be allowed to cum.
Setting specific sexual punishments when failing wouldn't help in my opinion. A sexual punishment is something I enjoy.
When doing something like that alone it needs a lot of willpower - for some people it needs more and some people need less.
That was also the case for me and I wanted to combine losing weight with orgasm denial.
I kept it simple and set strict goals. I was very close to 100kg and allowed me one orgasm every 2,0kg I lost.
Sure there is nobody controlling you and you could always just say fuck it I want that orgasm now.
But that would be a big disappointment and I would have felt really bad after that orgasm.
For 2,0kg I needed about 20-30 days.
I also rewarded myself with toys at specific goals. For example I always wanted to try a Hitatchi Vibrator on my cock.
So I said to myself, when reaching 95kg I will buy one and orgasm with it.
For me orgasm denial was always a big motivator. I love to be denied orgasms but after a week or so I start to want that orgasm very much. So I worked for it to be allowed to cum.
Setting specific sexual punishments when failing wouldn't help in my opinion. A sexual punishment is something I enjoy.
When doing something like that alone it needs a lot of willpower - for some people it needs more and some people need less.
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Let me help you out with the English, vicy.vicy23 wrote:I am also curious on losing weight through DOME. I found really hard to control my hubby on eating much almost 6 to 8 times a day. I'm slender and he is fatty. My hubby use to watch http://globalsexreviews.net and https://sex-reviews.com every now and then just to make him more excited for tricks and trends for his beliefs to lose weight. He does exercise regularly and of course our bonding normally. I want to found answers on here if is it really works to have a regular to heavy sex?
Is this what you mean to say?I am also curious about my hubby losing weight while I DOMME. I found it really hard to control my hubby, he eats almost 6 to 8 times a day. I'm slender and he is fat. My hubby used to watch http://globalsexreviews.net and https://sex-reviews.com every now and then, just to make him more excited to lose weight. He does exercise regularly and of course we are bonding normally. I want to find answers on here. Does is it really work to have a regular sized person with a heavy person?
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Vicy you could domme him by controlling how much porn he gets to watch. For example, he can only watch half an hour of porn if he exercises for half an hour.
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I can report with out doubt that this can work.
One of my girls has lost 50 pounds due to my motivation and her efforts.
If you do
What ever I want
it is easy.
One of my girls has lost 50 pounds due to my motivation and her efforts.
If you do
What ever I want
it is easy.
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Youre doing so great, miss Linda! Unbelievable
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Hello LindaQuiet Linda wrote:I can report with out doubt that this can work.
One of my girls has lost 50 pounds due to my motivation and her efforts.
If you do
What ever I want
it is easy.
I am glad to hear that the idea has proven to be succesfull before.
Right now I am in my frist week. My starting point was 73.3 kg and
I am very hopefull for this sunday.
I do think that this thread will help a bit, but never as much as what
was achieved by you with one of your girls. Guess that really requires
one on one contact between a real domme and her sub.
Please correct me if I am wrong....
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To be clear, it was not my motivation that got someone to lose weight.
It was my dear friend Kendoll. She no longer posts here.
If you like I can ask here for a link to her weight loss program.
However, she is a SHARK.
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So i am happy to tell you all that the first week has been a success. I now weigh 72.2 kg which means i earned a real orgasm
So i am a little bit scared now....but i really want to commit to losing wait and getting in the best physical shape....so i would really appreciate if you could ask your friend about her weight loss program Linda....and i want to thank you in advance...
Quiet Linda wrote:
To be clear, it was not my motivation that got someone to lose weight.
It was my dear friend Kendoll. She no longer posts here.
If you like I can ask here for a link to her weight loss program.
However, she is a SHARK.
So i am a little bit scared now....but i really want to commit to losing wait and getting in the best physical shape....so i would really appreciate if you could ask your friend about her weight loss program Linda....and i want to thank you in advance...
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