I'm sorry to hear that life has not always been so pleasant for you. It's clear that you've been living with a lot of pain and low self esteem. However, I find it problematic that you've learned NOTHING from your pain and past experiences. On one hand, it was good that you started to take more ...

Awww, thank you so much sissyscarlet! Your positive feedback just made me smile from ear to ear!

I appreciate your suggestions too...especially with regard to the length of the tease itself. I wondered if perhaps I was closing it out a little too soon. As I've been reading through some very ...

http://www.dominationtube.com/

http://www.femdomtube.org/

Those two seem to have mostly shorter clips that originated on the many kink.com sites (i.e. whippedass.com, meninpain.com, training of O, etc) ....but they do give a nice peek and provide some visual adrenaline for those who enjoy femdom ...

Do you want to be able to have an orgasm by the end of the tease? Or no orgasm at all?

Damn. I get stuck with "Q"!! :lol:

Ok....so here goes....

Q is for queer-play. I don't know if that's a real term, but I'm making it up to describe a kink that I find intriguing and enjoyable when carried out in an exploratory, good-natured spirit.

To me, queer play is about blurring gender ...

What an impressive piece! I just came across this essay....there are some pearls in there for sure. :)

Graduate, you should write more often. Do you have a blog or any other works that we can read?

Nicely done.

I got lots. Most songs that inspire me tend to do so in a sensual, sexual way. These are all on my playlist.

Deftones: No Ordinary Love (Sade cover)
Change (for more kinky scenarios)

Florence & The Machine: Kiss With A Fist

Massive Attack: Dissolved Girl

Delirium: Flowers Become Screens ...

Hello friends,

I'm working on a little research project covering the topic of orgasm denial and/or orgasm control. What I'd like to do is set up relatively informal online interviews either via email or Yahoo IM over the next couple of weeks with those who would like to share their thoughts ...

Thanks for the comments and shared insights so far. Often there are certain stereotypes that get associated when we think of what a "domme" is or isn't. It also comes down to context too, I believe. What might be hot during a kinky sex or femdomme scene might not in any other situation. Honestly, I ...

Hello sexy friends,

After reading through some of the very cool and interesting responses on the "Captured, Bound and At The Mercy Of.." thread, I got to thinking....(and once I start thinking and the wheels begin to turn, there's no telling where I'll end up!) :-D

Many of you shared fantasies ...

Hi Cumhardy,

Thanks for the welcome. I totally hear you on the difference between what looks and sounds good in the fantasy realm and what it is we actually feel comfortable doing in our regular life. I think they key is to finding some sort of balance between the two.

Now, about your Cocktease at ...

Hi everyone,

I'd like to say how much I admire the creativity shared on this site! Teasing and denial can be such a powerful exchange...and a totally fun way to explore sexuality. Its nice to meet you all and I look forward to sharing and getting to know you.

You bring up an intriguing point...and I often wonder, in reality how feasible submitting to a genuinely sadistic and nasty woman truly is for most submissives. In terms of the fantasy element, sure, it's kind of hot and filthy to think about being in terrible predicament with a ruthless domme ...