I am new to this. My partener has needs that I don't know what to do about. I think with some help I would be able to learn to satisfy some of them. There is someone on this site that I think could help me if she was willing, but I don't know if I should name her. What should I do? Should I send her ...

I am new to this sort of thing. My partener has needs that I don't know to deal with, but with a bit of help I would be able to satisfy some of them. I think I know the person on this site who could help me, if she is willing. Don't know if I should name her or not. What do I do?