Yes, what does the subby hate... it could be simple as not talking to them for a week... That would drive one of mine nutters. I've been lurking here for a while, and remember seeing something like this:

since it's related to cumming without permission, make them spend a day cumming, ruined ones to ...

solotort,

Turn in your submissive card right now, all you are doing is topping from the bottom. your silly little "hehe" show you are not really in it for the journey that true submissives find and follow, the surrender and lack of control requires even more of you if you are playing alone, which ...

You pathetic little sissy... panties, and handcuffs, and deepheat.

I insist you begin again, double the doses of that deepheat stuff that you hate. I guess she says put some on.... well to redeem yourself you should double coat it. Only then should you feel that you have earned the right to move ...