You can't go wrong with a bullet vibrator. Small, easy to carry round in your bag. You can even find ones disguised as pens. Also clover clamps. Not for the faint hearted but never underestimate the pleasure/pain feeling they can give. So many people seem to ignore their nipples. Don't! There is muc...

The best advice I can give is to get yourself out on the scene, attend fetish events (I think you call them munchies over in America), build up relationships etc.

As others have said, the ratio of submissive men to dominant women on here is huge.

And another contribution from me

So...have you managed to resist the temptation and hold out?

Here's my contribution:

As others have said, take it one step at a time. Don't even think about 18 days, just take it a day, an hour or even just an edge at a time. Everyone has the willpower, you just need to unlock yours.