I have a new blog post here: http://dominantmistressphonesex.com/2016/01/why-you-will-suffer-for-me-surrendering-mind-body-and-soul/ I'd love it if you'd answer the question in comments at my blog. Thank you, it helps me and I promise to answer comments there. To bring up a question for discussion h...

I agree with wearing one all the time, however you can do ass kegels and should. You should also change out the sizes. I'd use a butt plug harness You might have to change the ring for the plugs but its worth it. You can also find some great vibrating plugs at that site. I suggest wearing on of thos...

I have been doing phone sex for a long long time. Not all of the conversation is to get off. In fact I get a lot of guys that come to me to learn how to get their wife or girlfriend interested. Every situation is unique. There is no one answer to this question. You can ruin a good relationship with ...

oooooooo I love love sex toys of all kinds! For myself I love my magic wand. A plug in hitachi vibrator. I can orgasm in just a few minutes (or less) To use on slaves (toys) - I use those tiny "pocket rockets" small battery operated vibrators. Sometimes I tie them into bondage or use bonda...

I offer phone and online training. I have ongoing control packages that include email assignments, sometimes phone calls and or chats. They are very popular. Of course it is professional but there's no reason it can't have a good connection if both people work at it.

Good luck!

Natalie

This has been the most challenging year, for sure. This place has been such a comfort for me. I love coming here and reading all the kinky news!

I want to wish you all the very best New Year ever!

Love
Nat

So this has taken some interesting turns. lol I presented the idea to a few of my regulars who snapped at it. We are using New Years also as a marker. The games are interesting because all based on reward and punishment for task or goals. For instance once guy wants to stop smoking and is a big teas...

I'm pretty sure there is a personals section here. You should be clear if you're looking for a paid mistress or just to dabble with someone free. Paying someone is not really a bad thing. Some women (like myself) are lifestyle or professionals with real slaves and do this because they truly enjoy it...

CruelNatalie, I would find all of those, and more along similar lines (grooming, dressing, sleep, limits on vices), to be hot. Overall I eat fairly well and get some exercise, but often find them tedious. I think having them as tasks makes it much more exciting and enjoyable. It is also definitely ...

I am a true believer that the Dominant Female should have full control over a submissives life outside of the bedroom. I have had the diet idea for several years now and it is a great motivator to achieve goals. I had a girlfriend once that would give me a daily workout routine to do and if I compl...

She believed that a slave should work hard at being the best he could because he was property and what more valuable prize could you give the woman you adore than the perfect submissive male? mmmm yesssss. :w00t: forcing to become better (while appreciating and motivating) is just the greatest. Her...

For the past few years most of my work has been ongoing training. Programs designed so that the submissive male is accountable daily. Reporting, assignments, task, etc. Normally they are one week or 30 days, a break and they come back. I've found this to be the most effective for both of us. In my p...

When you wear panties under your men's clothes do you still feel the same level of humiliation? Curious The obvious sensations of being confined in silky fabric is more than enough to get me aroused... But I agree, it's more of a thrill when a woman has selected pair of underwear for you - Feeling h...

Trying to really get down to why erotic humiliation is arousing, and it keeps taking me back to how our preferences and desires often seem to be shaped by our first encounters. My experiences are similar to the classic "Junior High Tease", with a lot less touching, and a lot more teasing....

all very interesting comments. There are so many layers to it. It would be really hard to pin point one thing. Its easier to describe how it makes you feel then why. I took a fully dressed sissy into a supermarket with me once. I'm talking about party dress, mary janes, rumba panties, the works! I h...