Wow just noticed I did not update you on an event about 3 weeks ago:
Having sex with wife, blindfolded her, Got vibrator out, and was focusing on her for a good hour or so orally and with the vibrator. After she had a couple orgasms and as she was really feeling good, and asked her if she would like ...

welcome Miss Tira and thanks for the encouragement.

well my wife does not think sex in general takes too long, jsut the small (pun intended) part at the end where I actually enter her. By that point I have typically given her multiple orgasms orally, and very obviously wanted me to jsut get off and then GET OFF, ya know? This is part of why I believe ...

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Continuing my story begun at the above link (Welcom topic)

The other night we had a Dinner party at our house. WE arranged to play a game based on the "The Newlywed gam" . REmember? The wifes answer questions,a ndnthe see ...

I hope relating my progress is not wasting any of your time, if this stuff does not belong inthis forum, someone please tell me. But,

I did finally tell my wife that I want her to dominate me. She kind of went wiht it for the rest of our lovemakiing session , But on a little. At the end I asked if ...

1) HUg and kiss my wife at least several times, every day for "no reason"
2) Argue less with my wife and do morechores wtihout her asking
3) at least OFFER oral sex to my wife at least 3 times a week - NEVER ASK FOR SEX IN RETURN
4) TEll my wife daily how wonderful, and sexy she is, and how I do not ...

I have been planning to reverse my fantacy a bit tonight, and be a the dominating one. I think that perhaps, if I take control, and lead the play a bit, she will come to feel more comfortable taking HER turn at the wheel ;-)

I think she will likely not be comfortable taking charge with the cuffs ...

I posted and introduction for myself. THe forum seems to put the newest posts last, I do not know if any of you folks would have noticed it. Sorry if this post is redundant, and unecessary

I am 42 YO, not bad looking with a penis on the small side (4.5 in when hard). I am submissive by nature and that is clearly why I married a wife is very much a take charge kind of woman - that is in all things BUT SEX! ARGH!

I am very turned on by submission and cuckoldry. AND LOVE THE WEBTEASES ...