Thank you for all of the help and support everyone.

Thank you so much for your suggestions. I'm definitely going to try those.

If anyone else has more suggestions I'm all ears.

Great response! I do however already have control over her orgasms.

She's been in a different state from me for a while now so we started a dom/sub thing. Since she's not here I can't physically do anything to her but I can order her to do stuff.

Chastity and denial don't seem to affect her very much and since we are new to this I'm not sure what else I could try ...

Sign me up!