Personally, I believe cheating is a very cut and dry concept.

If it's something that you would not do with your significant other standing right there next to you, it's cheating.


-L

What is your goal? -To introduce your girlfriend to this side of you? -To explore these things outside of your relationship, without her knowing about it? -To move away from desires like this? You should be honest with yourself about this and be honest about the pros and cons of each of those decisi...

There is a physical limit to how many orgasms a guy can have in a given amount of time. I find that introducing a mental element of fear or feeling of guilt can make things interesting. It's also important to give fairly constant reminders that he has no control. For example...if I tie a guy down, I...

Sorry my point wasn't clear. I know that some girls are skinny and can be attractive, a nice/kind person and everything (like you, I think). But was i was trying to say is I see a lot of skinny girl make fun of other women/people thinking that they are the sexiest thing on earth (which as you said ...

Sorry, but to say that fat girls have a harder life that thin girls is crap. There is just as much anti-thin propaganda in the media, possibly more because its now seen as un-PC to make fun of overweight people but its fine to have headlines like "Shockingly Thin Celebs!" etc. Ive have ov...

Never underestimate the power of positive thought. ;)

I don't know Anna, but i'm glad things are looking up for her. I'm sure she'll be happy to see people here showing their support.

-L

Ooooh wow hi Lindsey ! :w00t: mmm plenty of food for thought there, i hope you have had a very nice summer! i love Your new avatar and glimpsing your delightful mind is a treat thanks :innocent: *thinking so many naughty things mmm * :icecream: hope neither of you mind me butting in :blush: Summer ...

Sounds to me like an invitation for your to create one. ;)

-L

I have been looking for a mistress to tease me for a while now. I have a girlfriend and shes not really into t&d and thats fine with me, only she doesnt want me being teased by anyone in person so that means I can only try to find someone on the web. This is pretty tough and Im not sure where t...

If the other girls that browse the forums are anything like me, they're probably not the least bit enticed by your offer. It all too closely resembles the 'get rich quick' schemes I see in the back of Men's magazines I probably shouldn't be reading in the first place...whether or not that's your int...

Some interesting ideas there. But if we're being honest, you can't ever truly inflict maximum discomfort on yourself willfully. There are likely some clever ways you can think up getting around that. But I think you're probably just as curious about the psychological aspect of having an orgasm ruine...

Some of the girls stick around and just tend to stay in the shadows until they have something good to say. ;)

-L

I'm probably going to tell you some things you may not want to hear, but i've always been a believer in brutal honesty. For a moment, you need to set aside your sexual needs and desires. There are 2 reasons for that. First; it sounds to me like you have more deep rooted issues in the relationship ri...

Hmm ... Lindsey .... Lindsey ... now where have I seen that name around .... :lol: It's a fairly common name. :whistle: @Lindsey - I'd say your analysis is pretty accurate. I think her feeling inadequate is also fed by the fact that I have difficulty being very aggressive in the bedroom. I used to ...

I admittedly didn't read this entire thread, but I figured i'd put my 2 cents in. If it hasn't been mentioned, i'd stress that you shouldn't be overlooking the fact that your wife likely feels inadequate as a result of this, and that's probably the biggest problem. If you have a healthy sex life wit...