It looks to me like there are two areas where you could communicate better:

You don't understand why she feels the way she does about your porn habits.
She doesn't understand why you use porn, and how it makes you feel.

My advice would be to talk to her about these two issues. Then you will have a ...

The guy above me is definitely 1 hour ahead of UK time.

I am a little bit crazy, extremely full of myself, and don't like to blow my own horn.

I think there is a key difference, between abuse and "play" (sorry if this isn't the right word for it), but we have to introduce an abstract (and probably insensitive) concept to show it plainly.

I'll use the word "wellbeing" to denote a person's state (e.g. health, state of mind, prosperity) at a ...

It seems you've tempted a lurker out into the open.

Indigo wrote: Ever had 10 in a row? Owie!!!

Maybe the ideal "testing period" would be the time it takes you to cum 10 times?