"Then I asked him this:"
"'Tell me, do you think of me primarily as a sex object, or as a real person?'"
"He was flustered by this. The way I was appearing to him was making him think of sex and how much he wanted to make love. These were the thoughts filling his mind as I turned and teased him with different views of my dress. But he knew that it wouldn't help him to say what he was really thinking, so he said that of course he thought only the best of me, and that he thought of me as a real person."
"I could tell by the way he was looking at me that he was turned on and thinking of sex, so I knew he was lying. But I had to have this conversation with him... So I said:"
"'OK... Then do you know what I have to do to get tenure at ESU?'"
"He knew, and said that I would have to write a book."