An Educational Experience
Lesson 6: Ruined Orgasm
Ruined orgasm can only truely be achieved by multiple edging until the man cums. The only way to see if he had a ruined orgasm is to put your finger between his balls and his anus. There is a tube there that connects to the penis. If that tube is contracting, which would just feel like movement to your finger than he had a real orgasm. If there is nothing than he had a ruined orgasm. You must be quick because the contractions will end between 15-30 seconds. You can also see that it is a ruined orgasm because cum will slowly ooze out. The slow oozing of cum does not mean he had a ruined orgasm. Only the lack of contractions will tell you that but the oozing is an indicator that he did not have a true orgasm.
In summary, for a ruined orgasm there must be cum and there must be no contractions. This can only be done by multiple edges.